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  1. Anonymous says:

    Oh but he has been in therapy and he’s changing his ways! Lol lol lol lol! Smoothest and best liar I have ever met! I hope he rots in hell! He has no soul. He has no heart. He is a sick sick man.

  2. Anonymous says:

    I met Dave in April of 2017 when he moved to Appleton for work. We dated from May through October of 2017 when I caught him lying and cheating with another woman. He tried to cover his tracks quickly with more lies. In addition he quickly told this person that I was an ex who was stalking him. His lies did not work on me, however I am sure she continued to date him. He lived less than a block from my daughter and I couldn’t help but notice her car parked outside his home. As I looked back, I had kind of caught him 2 other times when I saw cars at his house. He made up lies and I believed him as well. For the next several months I made up fake profiles on dating sites and lured him in 4 times. Each time I would break it off and hoped he would know what it felt like to have someone lie to you and steal time and emotions. I realized this behavior was hurting me and I needed to let it go. I told him it was me playing these games. He actually thanked me and said I had made him realize what he had done and he was getting help. He is a master manipulator and is so convincing that I believed him. And then I found the Cheaterland post and saw he had done this again to at least two more women. All this time, he was dating a woman in Kentucky, who he married in September, and he was telling me he wanted to rekindle what we had,
    that I was the best thing that had happened to him, that he made the biggest mistake of his life. All more lies as I have no doubt he was repeating these same lines to multiple women. He is sick, mentally not right, and I wish he would get some help for his problem. I loved him with all my heart and got repaid by him ripping my heart from my chest and stomping on it, not once but twice. For the sake of your family Dave, get some help!

  3. Anonymous says:

    Honey, the same thing happened to me!

    It is if I wrote your story. I am so glad he is out of my life and I did not marry him. We discussed it. He is a very sick man. I feel so bad got his new wife Dana. He cheated right under my nose in the same city.

    I was also very much in love with him. His excuses and lies were unbelievable.

    He is a monster! He will one day have to answer to god.

  4. Anonymous says:

    I love looking at these sites and reading the dirt. I admit it is a guilty pleasure of mine . This man doesn’t just sound sick, he sounds dangerous. There is no crime in dating multiple people at once. But it sounds like he has made promises of marriage and actually went through with it with one person. He is breaking hearts and breaking women’s spirits. So much so several have taken the time to post their stories. I’m wondering, do you women somehow know each other? I googled whitelaw, it’s only about 700 people. Is there some way you could band together and confront him? If he and his wife live in different states, I’m sure she is clueless. Have any of you met any of his family members? Maybe you could contact them in a calm non-confronting manner. As a plea for help for this man. If it was me, I wouldn’t take it seriously unless someone I truly cared about asked me to get help. And I don’t mean to sound like an ass, but from the posts, it doesn’t sound like he cared about any of you. It’s guys like this that give men a bad name. I’m truly sorry for all the pain you ladies have endured. Stay strong

  5. Anonymous says:

    He moved to this small town in April of this year. I know the first name and towns of 3 women he dated, all from different cities. I’m sure he probably took us all to the same places. He has a favorite Indian Restaurant, a favorite breakfast place, a favorite Chinese, etc. I actually did send a message via Facebook to 3 of his family members and I was threatened by him that he will harm me if I contacted anyone again It does concern me as I have no idea what he is capable of once backed into a corner. He has no morals, no conscious, no true feelings so I’m sure he would feel no remorse. He’s such a narcissist that I know he will Google himself and find this site. I actually told him his name was posted on another site which has since been taken down. He went out to that site and read it all the time. Hi Dave! Hope you are well and getting ready to move your lying ass to Denver to start your new job and new life with Dana. How long before you begin preying on new victims in Colorado?

  6. Anonymous says:

    Wow! Wasn’t this a lifetime movie? What were his threats? Bodily harm? Picture doesn’t look like he is a big guy. Was he physically violent to any of you? I would think that would have come up already, so I am assuming not. Most narcissistic people make false threats. If he put any threats in writing, via text ,email, social media, etc. You have a case. My hunch is no. You are doing nothing illegal if you inform his family members of his actions. My advice would be to be completely honest. Don’t libel his name. It will only come back to haunt you. If everything in these posts is truthful. You ladies have enough to run with. Good luck. I’m staying tuned!

  7. Anonymous says:

    Dana, my prayers are with you. Please get Dave into therapy he is a sick man.

    We are not the crazy ex’s we are women he lied and cheated on after asking us each to be exclusive.

  8. Anonymous says:

    Wow! This guy sounds like a total a*****e and he deserves whatever hell you put him through. I must admit a guilty pleasure at reading this but I am a bit bothered by something . All the posters here are anonymous. What sin did his new wife commit. From what you describe she too is a victim. So what purpose does it serve to post her name. All the women he’s hurt get to remain anonymous and go on with the healing process. But this pour woman is not only a victim of his action , just like you, but unlike you she is no longer anonymous. Please explain what it is that SHE did that’s any different from any of the other posters. Yet you all get to hide and she’s exposed for the world to see. As bad as he is, he didn’t publicly expose her to ridicule for falling in love with the wrong guy. Before, she had to deal with him and their circle. Now? You got your revenge by shaming him but what did she do to deserve your vengeance ?

  9. Anonymous says:

    I did a google search of her name . Guess where it brought me? Congrats all . You got a two for one special!

  10. Anonymous says:

    Does anyone know about his wife? Does she have family? Kids? Has she had a chance to share this devastating news on her own terms? Or do they now get to find out from friends who happen upon this site. Anyone going to let her know how she’s been publicly shamed or does she get to be surprised ? As if finding out your husband is a lying sack of sh$t isn’t enough . You all know that pain but now you’ve piled this on the poor woman who had nothing to do with anything. She gets to deal with him but you get to hide behind anonymity while she’s publicly shamed for doing the same thing you did, loving him.

  11. Anonymous says:

    You are right previous post. But this site doesn’t let you sign your name when you post. Every thing comes up as anonymous. I frankly am not so sure he wouldn’t resort to physical harm if I did sign my name. He never hit me, but showed a temper on several occasions. I’m sorry his wife’s name was used.

  12. Anonymous says:

    Wow! This does read like a Lifetime Movie. I’m reading about how heartless and soulless this guy is and of what is described is true, he truly is. But he did folks wrong individually.
    To splash an innocent woman’s name all over a cheater website without knowing a thing about her or her situation ? That is truly cold blooded and heartless! Does she have any recourse? Does she have names? Can she post names of who totally “outed “ her?

  13. Anonymous says:

    I have kept every text, every message, every voicemail and yes he did make his threat in a message so I do have proof. There is no shame for his wife, she is a victim as well. She has been contactedl. He is just so freaking smooth that he can convincingly cover his tracks. I do feel bad for her. If I was her I’d want to know sooner than later.

  14. Anonymous says:

    You are right previous post. But this site doesn’t let you sign your name when you post. Every thing comes up as anonymous. I frankly am not so sure he wouldn’t resort to physical harm if I did sign my name. He never hit me, but showed a temper on several occasions. I’m sorry his wife’s name was used. But at least not her last name. From what I’ve seen, she hasn’t changed it to Sanders and in fact, some things I see looks like he may have taken her name. Established an alias?

  15. Anonymous says:

    Wow! It’s intersting how on one hand you apologize for posting her name and then on the other post her picture . My sense is that physical violence from “him” is the last thing you need to worry about. You’ve pretty much ruined her life.
    Did she know about you? If not , why publicly humiliate her like this. Sure comments come across as anonymous but you made the choice to expose her name, home, future home and now a picture. May I ask what satisfaction hurting someone who has no role in this brings you ?

  16. Anonymous says:

    She has a right to know for sure . But does she deserve her name and picture posted on a cheater site?

  17. Anonymous says:

    She’s a victim too. So why aren’t you and the other victims names and photos posted ?

  18. Anonymous says:

    When she’s exposed by family , or maybe a friend, or maybe even a stranger , does she get to come on this site and post pictures and names ? She’s as guilty as any other victims . Should google searches of other victims names bring them to this site as well? Like I said, shouldn’t someone who claims to be lookingnoit for her be the one to let her know about this situation or should it be left to chance in hopes she’s not blindsided ?

  19. Anonymous says:

    I wouldn’t be too concerned. This site doesn’t get much traffic and in reality none of her family, friends, coworkers have any reason to search out this type of information on her new husband. He on the other hand does and this posting is solely for his benefit. Maybe it will be enough humiliation to spur him into getting help and they both will benefit and live happily ever after.

  20. Anonymous says:

    I believe her cheating husband ruined her life as well as other women’s lives.

    It is sad this man can’t stop. The hope is that his wife can help him get help.

  21. Anonymous says:

    Hey I just noticed you said his wife has been contacted . She knows and still you published her name and picture ..:She May break up with him over this and lord knows she should but her name and photo will forever be linked to this episode . How does she rebuild and recover. You and the others get to hate and move on but this will follow her forever. He’s an awful human being but in terms of damage done this could have much longer term impact .

  22. Anonymous says:

    I am sure in time she will leave him but not because of a picture which does not show her last name.

    You will cheat over and over because you can’t stop or you won’t stop.

    You where responding to many women on dating sites just last week. How long have you been married?

  23. Anonymous says:

    I’m sorry but we all have long term effects from this man! I can no longer trust anyone. I am so afraid I have pulled myself from all social situations. I contemplated suicide after this happened I was in so much pain. I will never recover from the damage he has caused.

  24. Anonymous says:

    If I’m reading you right publicly humiliating her is for his benefit. So you’re giving permission for you to be outed?

  25. Anonymous says:

    I got a message from Dave October 29th on the dating site Bumble. He asked me out for coffee immediately. I couldn’t make it and we rescheduled for lunch. He said that he couldn’t make it later in the week, as he had a business trip to Colorado, and then would be visiting family over the weekend. We planned to meet for lunch on the following Monday. He cancelled last minute saying that he was in a “committed relationship ” and it wasn’t right. My friend is on the same dating site. A few days later, he swiped on her profile! She messaged back and told him that I was her friend and if he was in a committed relationship, why was he still fishing? He never replied and then deleted his account. This happened approximately a month after his marriage….trouble in paradise already?

  26. Anonymous says:

    Publicly humiliating Him is for his benefit. She is a victim as well as the rest of us. She’s getting caught in the crossfire. Unintended consequence of his actions.

  27. Anonymous says:

    Are you trying to drum up sympathy for him? If I was the suspicious type….

  28. Anonymous says:

    I saw this guy on Bumble too! Like last week! In his profile pic he is sitting with his work badge on that clearly says “Dave Sanders, director of patient experience, Thedacare “. I figured I’d Google him before I swiped on him. I came across “cheaterland ” but couldn’t access it. It looks like the site is down. On a whim, I googled him again today. Holy c**p! He’s married! I went back to the site to report him, but his profile has been deleted. Unbelievable with all I’ve read that he would post a picture with his full name

  29. Anonymous says:

    Sounds like it for sure. Still feel it was wrong to expose her. But hey…

  30. Anonymous says:

    Dave, you are so transparent. Make no mistake ladies. The posts pleading for mercy on his poor wife’s soul, are most definitely coming from Dave himself. I’ve saved many texts and other conversation with him. There are certain phrases he uses. Certain ways of structuring sentences. I have been comparing them. And I have no doubt in my mind where the sympathy posts are originating. Dave, shouldn’t you be working and not wasting your day Googling your name?

  31. Anonymous says:

    It is only you Dave, you keep hurting others. It will be short term pain for Dana and she can get out now. Think of her pain in two or three years of you cheating on her.

  32. Anonymous says:

    For the sake of his wife, I will let this go now and try the best I can to move on with my life. I got to see his face plastered with a great big cheater across it. I have the satisfaction of knowing this will forever be a part of his history. Nothing more can be accomplished in my eyes. Dave I forgive you. I can only pray you can be the man your wife deserves. She’s a good women and you best work hard every day of whatever days you have left on this Earth to make amends.

  33. Anonymous says:

    Going back and rereading this thread is very interesting. Dave posted….” You’ve pretty much ruined her life.” No sir, YOU have done that all on your own. You lied to her for years leading her to believe you were in a long term committed monogamous relationship. You cheated on her, over and over and over again. This shows how truly sick you are, not accepting blame but pointing the finger at your victims. This poor woman. May God bless her!

  34. Anonymous says:

    If you want to out me, go right ahead. I have done nothing wrong except fall in love with the wrong person. You sir are the one who lied, cheated, created all this drama. You are the one who strung people along time and time again. Your wife deserves none of this and you should be thanking your lucky stars that she hasn’t left you yet.

  35. Anonymous says:

    Dave you have preyed on trusting, loving women that deserve better. I am guessing your wife Amy left you because you cheated on her over and over again. Is this the reason you moved so much and changed jobs so often?

  36. Anonymous says:

    Wait, what? I was told Amy had the affair and left him? Another lie by Dave?

  37. Anonymous says:

    I’m sure every woman that has posted on this site has heard Dave say that his parents are his hero’s. Dave, I wonder what they would think of you if they saw this site?

  38. Anonymous says:

    Dave, you asked if your wife has any recourse from our posts. I’m sure that you can figure out who has been posting. (Or maybe there have been so many that you can’t narrow it down) feel free to forward my name and number to her. I’d love to chat

  39. Anonymous says:

    I’m sure it’s like a car wreck and he just can’t stop himself from looking. It’s amazing what information is available online. I found his parents, their address, their phone number and the same info for many relatives.

  40. Anonymous says:

    Dave told me that he and Amy never cheated on each other. But his divorce was only final November 1st, 2017. So we know that is a lie. He told me that Amy left him for other reasons. Any one who has been “with” Dave knows what I mean

  41. Anonymous says:

    Well, I think that we can say for sure that Dave is reading these posts. He changed his Facebook profile to say he lives in Appleton not Whitelaw. Trying to cover his tracks. For a college educated man (or so he claims, has anyone checked on THAT possible lie?) He is not very intelligent sometimes

  42. Anonymous says:

    I know how upset he was when he found out about the Cheaterland posts. I never once considered he was contributing to the posts but now I realize it was him threatening harm to himself and his dogs. Makes so much more sense!

  43. Anonymous says:

    Oh yeah! The posts as “got your backs” was all Dave! Think about it. Some random guy drove all the way to Whitelaw and just happens to see Dave walking the dogs, and also notices he’s wearing a John Deere hat? And this supposedly happened in summer, when Whitelaws main street was under construction. SO…this random guy took his eyes off the torn up road, with all the construction signs and detours, and saw that Dave had a 3 legged dog and could identify his hat. I’m not buying it. That was Dave

  44. Anonymous says:

    New posting ladies! Check out “Dave Sanders Appleton Wisconsin “

  45. Anonymous says:

    That’s funny that he changed his Facebook profile to say “lives in Appleton “. Maybe he should change it to “lives in Hell”

  46. Anonymous says:

    The same post about googling White Law and the population was also on the other cheater site. Nice try Dave!

  47. Anonymous says:

    I noticed that too! He is getting sloppy. He’s repeating himself

  48. Anonymous says:

    On August 7th Dave tweeted “Be careful of what you ask for “….let me tell you, the irony is not lost on me

  49. Anonymous says:

    I am getting so angry all over again reading these posts from Dave! IAre you really concerned for your wife or just yourself? I hope you realize the public humiliation we all have felt. When you have to tell your children why you are no longer dating this person. When you have to explain to your grandchildren why Mr. Dave doesn’t come have dinner, or come to the lake, or stop by their lemonade stand. When you have to tell your friends that your relationship was an entire farce. When you have to tell your boss you no longer need that time off for a trip that you had already paid for airline tickets. You married the same week you were supposed to be in Hawaii with someone else for God’s sake! What were you going to tell your wife about that trip? I suppose being in separate states made it easier for you to fool her. I’m the fool who gave you a second chance when everyone in my life said to run fast and run far. I defended you a thousand times. Now I am publicly humiliated all over again as I have to tell them they were correct about you. That all your claims of getting help were just another farce! If you want me to put my name and my picture on this site I will gladly! I have nothing to hide.

  50. Anonymous says:

    I just checked his Facebook page. Now he has deleted Appleton, and has nothing listed for where he lives. Just that he is from Seattle. Dave, you are making us work for this. Guess we need a few more posts. Dave Sanders ,Seattle and Dave Sanders ,Colorado Springs comes to mind

  51. Anonymous says:

    Can you post his Facebook link here? I can’t find him on FB.

  52. Anonymous says:

    2 Corinthians 13: 11-14

  53. Anonymous says:

    Go to Facebook and in the search bar put: Dave Sanders Seattle. I just posted his page. He’s deleted virtually everything on it. All he has up is his picture that was taken in his back yard when he first moved to Appleton. He told me his daughter took the picture. But I’m sure that was a lie. I bet his new wife was visiting and snapped it. And one photo of a field. My guess is that his page will be completely down very soon.

  54. Anonymous says:

    Done!

  55. Anonymous says:

    It’s me getting angry again! I was cheated on in my marriage and it was so hurtful. I never would involve myself with someone who was already in a committed relationship. Turns out unbeknownst to me I was the other woman. I was stepping in on another woman’s man. Even though it was not known to me, I apologise from the

  56. Anonymous says:

    Bottom of my heart! I am not that person and am completely devastated to know I did something that caused pain and conflict to another unsuspecting woman.

  57. Anonymous says:

    Apology accepted. And I in turn would like to apologize to the woman before me. The one he lied to saying he had to work on a presentation, or he was going to visit his daughter. When in fact he spent the time with me, telling me that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and losing me would be the biggest mistake of his life. I never would intentionally cause hurt or pain to anyone. But I know that the woman before me experienced that. For that I apologize…and Dave, don’t post anonymously saying that we are intentionally causing pain to Dana. That is on you

  58. Anonymous says:

    I am sure we all have similar messages : “Words describing my behavior come easy. Cruel, callous, selfish and mean. You nor anyone else deserves what I did.”

  59. Anonymous says:

    “Coming up with a reason is proving more difficult …there is not a trail of broken hearts in my wake. This is not the norm for me…”. Really Dave you lying sack if ####!

  60. Anonymous says:

    “What I’m most sorry about is that I met a wonderful woman in you , held your heart in my hand and cruelly damaged it perhaps permanently…”

  61. Anonymous says:

    “That’s not who I am nor what I do but that does nothing to mitigate nor in any way diminish what I’ve done. I’m so ashamed I can’t forgive myself so I have no right to ask for forgiveness from you… “

  62. Anonymous says:

    Who has the same messages? I’m sure you all do or something close!

  63. Anonymous says:

    By the way, these messages were sent at the end of October 2017. Hollow empty words as he continued to date his long distance love and 2 local loves until they busted him in June of 2018 and then tell his wife in October of 2018.

  64. Anonymous says:

    Dave, you are not sorry for any of this! It was all in your control. I truly hope Dana wises up and divorces you! You will never stop cheating. You are a master! Why would you continue to be on dating sites..

    You will continue to break that lovely ladies heart every day.

    You are an embarrassment to your family!!! You are an embarrassment to Dana’s famiky. This should be a happy time in your life and Dana’s. You stole that from her. Why were you dating Dana when you were married? Dana would never have dated a married man. Your relationship was a complete lie from the start.

  65. Anonymous says:

    I got “being with you is like being handed a million dollars. You think that it is too good to be true. That’s how I feel about you. You scare the hell out of me, because we are so perfect for each other “..June 2nd, 2018….that’s after I found in April that he had been seeing someone else the whole 5 mths we were together . Begged me back. He has reached out to me since that. I’ve not responded

  66. Anonymous says:

    He told me the whole story about how he had one of you helping him move from his house in Neenah and one if you helping him unpack at his house in Whitelaw. On the same day at the same time! That takes balls!

  67. Anonymous says:

    His version. SFJ found a 6 month anniversary card from S. SFJ confronted him and he had to make a decision between the two. He chose S from Neenah. SFJ found out who S was and they both confronted him at his home in Whitelaw. S had stopped at his house to pick up items she had left there and SFJ knocked on the door. They threatened him and also went to a local establishment to Sully his name. He warned them not to as he was the only man of color in the small town and he feared racial repercussions. When the Cheaterland website was posted and someone threatened him, that was his proof that he was correct. He said local authorities we’re on high alert due to this threat (that in all likelihood was made by him).

  68. Anonymous says:

    Check out the new post ladies! Dave Sanders Seattle/Colorado Springs…it’s his Facebook page

  69. Anonymous says:

    Dana’s Facebook page is now almost completely deleted. No show of friends or work history. But still her and the new hubby front and center

  70. Anonymous says:

    Dana’s Facebook page is now almost completely deleted. No show of friends or work history. But still her and the new hubby front and center

  71. Anonymous says:

    Tinder, Zoosk, Match, OurTime, POF, Bumble, OK Cupid, Black People Meet…..any others?

  72. Anonymous says:

    I forgot to mention. When I found out about S, Dave of course said she meant nothing to him and begged me back with more lies. I said Dave, you are a problem solver . Figure out a way for everyone ( Dave, S and me) to be happy. His reply was, ” Well, I couldn’t figure out a way to save my marriage.” This was June 2018. He was, and is, still in love with Amy. Then he said, (and I S**T YOU NOT,) “oh what a tangled Web we weave when first we practice to deceive “….. ya gotta love that!

  73. Anonymous says:

    He just swiped on me on Bumble last week Friday

  74. Anonymous says:

    Dave just posted his wedding picture on his Facebook page! I’m sure that he is trying to show Dana he is a changed man and he is going to be true! Dana, the bracelet you are wearing is the exact one he gave to S on their 6 mth anniversary in April 2018. I found a receipt for the same bracelet when I was helping him pack! He bought one for me too. But I broke up before he could unpack it and give it to me. Honey, I think that’s my bracelet! Do you think it is appropriate for your husband to email his ex girlfriend and ask her to come over and clean his house? He did that to me less than a month ago! October 22nd! There are a hundred cleaning companies that he could have contacted. But he contacted me. I saved the email. I did not respond. He hasn’t changed! Dana, please don’t think that him putting your picture up on Facebook means anything to him. He had another woman’s pictures up in his office in Appleton …please don’t fall for his lies!

  75. Anonymous says:

    Who needs Facebook? I searched public information. There is a plethora of data on most people. For example, Dave grew up on Seward Ave in Seattle. He lived in Cincinnati, Washington, NC, Clovis CA, Daly City CA, Apache Junction AZ, Phoenix AZ. His brothers name is Damian who lives in Kent, WA and his phone number is 253-520-41xx. His sister’s name is Deanna. She is 54 and lives in Milton, WA. She has an email at hotmail.com. ALL public info! I’ve got nanes, phones, addresses, emails on each one.

  76. Anonymous says:

    Dave, I know you say you are worried about the embarrassment and humiliation that your new wife will receive by all of this being made public. How much were you thinking of her when you were dating other women? how much were you thinking of her each and every time you pull your dick out of your pants? Maybe you should have been thinking about her a little bit more? but no it was only about and always only about Dave and what Dave wants.

  77. Anonymous says:

    Did anyone look at Dana’s Facebook page, what she listed as one of her favorite quotes?
    “It’s easier to get forgiveness then permission” Sounds like something Dave would say….maybe they really are meant for each other

  78. Anonymous says:

    This is Cathy. Please, Dana’s Facebook or whatever she might have on social media is completely irrelevant here. She is just as devastated by the series of events as everyone else is here. In fact, probably more so as she, unlike the rest of us, just took vows for better or for worse. Unfortunately for her, their new life together is starting with the worst coming first. I truly hope for her sake that The BEST is yet to come!

  79. Anonymous says:

    This is Judy, Bravo Cathy. Well said. I know for sure that there are at least 3 of us posting. But by my count maybe as many as 6. I’ve made my point. And i think we all need to end this. Dana is a strong woman and she deserves the best, like we all do. You are truly a class act, and you know that I don’t think that he deserves you. But you do what is best for you . Again I am here if you need me. If you message Cathy on FB, I think that she could get a hold of me. Best of luck to you dear, Judy

  80. Anonymous says:

    I matched with Dave on Bumble a couple of days ago. He made a date with me and cancelled. My friend then matched with him a few days later. She researched him and saw all the Cheater posts. Dana, I am not going to give my name because I never met him. But do not let him lie because this happened last week Thursday November 8th. He is still fishing. I wish you nothing but the best Dana. I will post nothing more. Good luck to you. And my advice to you would be that he let’s you look at his phone anytime to prove he’s not on the dating sites anymore. If I was you, that would be my first demand, because it seems that’s where he’s met every victim. Peace

  81. Anonymous says:

    Dana, Dave contacted me in late June on the Black people meet dating site. I was on route to our date when a friend called me and told me not to go. Dave had shared his phone number and my friend collected info on him from that. We were going to go golfing and then swimming at my place. He told me that he was planning on staying over night. Because of the investigation my friend did, I never went to the date and never met him. But I felt that I never gave him a fair chance. So I googled his name to try and get his phone number again. This site is what immediately comes up. I am so glad that I came upon it. I was going to give him another chance. And from reading the posts, he already was engaged and seeing several others when he reached out to me. Dana you said that you take your vows seriously. Dave obviously doesn’t. It sounds as though he may have been messaging women on the sites during your honeymoon. I can’t tell you how lucky I feel to have dodged this bullet. God help you Dana

  82. Anonymous says:

    Has anyone considered that Dana has stated she has known Dave for years. So she had to have known he was still married when they started seeing each other. Maybe a gentle “shame on you ” is in order for her. And I wonder if she has considered that Dave has a woman waiting for him in Colorado. I don’t know if she has ever been on a dating site, but you can put a zip code in the search bar. He could have been messaging a woman there and she can’t wait for him to get there. Why did this guy move so much? Was he military? I don’t care what your job is. You dont move your whole family that much unless you are running from sonething. Soneone? Dana also stated that she knows people who have known Dave for decades. And this isn’t the Dave they know. Really? How many have dated him? We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Don’t we all know a couple who broke up that we all thought were so in love? My guess is that this has been his M.O for years. Great guy to all his friends and a Cheater in private. AND has anyone done the math? I actually had to get a pen and paper. Correct me if I am wrong, but for a time wasn’t Dave married, engaged and seeing 3 women who they each thought he loved , and actively looking for women on dating sites? WOW. Dana, I knew love was blind. But I didn’t know that it was deaf and dumb as well. RUN, don’t walk!

  83. Anonymous says:

    Dave the SOB did the same s**t to me. Used the same mo to lure me in. Always had his phone by his side. No eye contact when having serious conversations. Used his kids and hid dogs as an excuse, claimed to want a future with me as well, always spend a lot of time in the bathroom with doors locked. i kept pushing for answers and his answers were always general, he lies , manipulates and uses women, he is a narcissistic, insecure, selfish demon that should be alone forever. Karma is a b***h. Ladies BEWARE. He plans on moving to Colorado to continue this abuse of women for his own satisfaction. I truly believe that Dana doesn’t exist and Dave himself is the one posting and pretending to get sympathy from others. He needs to have attention on him at all times those are just some of his MOs . I too was seeing him and now learning that he was married . Those who knew him know he claims he has prostate and has a hard time to be sexual. His manipulations nearly destroyed my life. But now its his time to get whats coming to him.

  84. Anonymous says:

    I am also a victim. Used me to pay for things….he was cheap. Hated opening his wallet. Ladies did you pay for many things?! We were fools. The bathroom time was an excuse to email other women. Excuses to leave the room to talk to Amy about the kids, the house, or his parents or a sick friend. How many phones and phone numbers did he have with you ladies?

  85. Anonymous says:

    I had a very different experience. Very much a gentleman, opened doors, ladies first, always paid for dinner, cooked many meals, brought wine or dessert when I cooked, definitely not lacking in the bedroom. Very attentive and gentle. The perfect relationship until I discovered the cheating.

  86. Anonymous says:

    He always had 2 phones with me.Said one was for work. But I know now he kept his Arizona line. Always face down on a table, or in his pocket. Never in full view . And yes, hours in the bathroom with “stomach issues”. Yet when we went out to eat in Homewood, he had a loaded chili dog. Kinda spicy for someone with such a sensitive stomach. Speaking of Homewood, I wouldn’t be surprised if he had (still has) a girlfriend there. I was going to ask you ladies, did he ever talk music with any of you? He told me that his favorite band was Common Kings. We used to listen to them on our trips to Homewood. He told me that the song by them “No other love ” reminded him of me, and it became our song. Its on Youtube. Look it up. Very romantic. Did he tell anyone else that? Dana?

  87. Anonymous says:

    Yes, opened doors, very polite. But did you ever offer to pay? He would grab the check, but as soon as I offered, he would hand it over. And other than the problem we all know, very attentive in the bedroom. He did cook for me, but always at his places in Appleton or Whitelaw. So I always brought the wine.

  88. Anonymous says:

    Here’s a little tip Dave, when you post multiple times, asking for us to stop, and then saying you paid for everything. Wait an hour or between posts. Ones that are minutes apart give you away. You are so transparent

  89. Anonymous says:

    I had been seeing him also this summer. Never saw his dick get hard, not sure how he can be so attentive in the bedroom with a soft dick.

  90. Anonymous says:

    Dave felt us all out. What was appropriate behavior with one of us, wasn’t necessarily going to fly with another. He would let some pay, but couldn’t get away with it from another. He was a chameleon. Dana said that this isn’t the Dave his friends know. I agree. None of us knows the real Dave. Think of it this way. We all fell in love with Tom Cruise. I loved him in Risky business, and another loved him in A few good men , still another in Mission Impossible. He played many characters. Was he interested in sports? Photography? Golf? Travel? Music? (Told me he hated country, yet loved it with another) cooking? Biking? 2 of these things were a daily part of our relationship. Yet I didn’t know that he had any interest in the others. None of us knows the real Tom Cruise, and nobody knows the real Dave. Not even himself

  91. Anonymous says:

    Yes we know that he had problems. We always said that like a blind man being able to hear so much better, his other senses kicked in where he was lacking physically. I saw him one weekend and we were intimate immediately when I got to his house on Friday night. Then again when we went to bed, and then first thing Saturday morning. I spoke with another woman who said she saw him Saturday night and they were intimate and then again Sunday morning. He was trying to prove that he is still a man

  92. Anonymous says:

    I dated Dave for 6 mths. Friday February 23rd is the first time he told me that he loved me and the only time we had intercourse. He was supposed to go to a wedding with me, but said that he had to teach a class. On a Friday night? Really? Anyway he picked me up at the reception and we went back to the hotel room. Afterwards he told me that it was the first time he had been in a woman in 12 years. Any one else get that story?

  93. Anonymous says:

    Any other ladies worried about STD’s?

  94. Anonymous says:

    How could we be? I don’t think that you know Dave. From the other posts he’s been in one woman in the last 12 year. His ED saved us. You can’t spread stds with your finger or tongue. Well, maybe tongue

  95. Anonymous says:

    We all need to get checked!

  96. Anonymous says:

    Read up on transmission of STD’s. They can be transferred orally. Get tested. Dave you should be tested.

  97. Anonymous says:

    Are you serious? Last time I was intimate was 5 mths ago. I’m probably safe. I would think that I would be showing symptoms by now. Scary though

  98. Anonymous says:

    Talk with your health care provider.

  99. Anonymous says:

    I will. This is scary. I’ve not been with another man since Dave, and no other 10 mths before. If I have any STD I know it’s from him

  100. Anonymous says:

    That SOB. I’m sure he told everyone else on here how much he admired his brothers marriages. They were so in love with their wife’s, and were like power couples. How he was jealous of them. Maybe if he would have kept his dick in his pants, and worked on his own marriage, he would still be in it! I swear if he gave me an STD, I am going to walk into his office at thedacare and present my lab results right there!

  101. Anonymous says:

    Ladies we thought we were the only ones. There could have been 100’s. What are the chances he is STD free?

    Yikes I am off to the clinic next week.

  102. Anonymous says:

    Well to say I am upset is putting it mildly! Guess what ladies? I got tested yesterday. Guess what I have ladies? Herpes Simplex 2! I was not with anyone for 4 years before Dave the w***e! I have not been with anyone since. Dr. said I have been exposed. I have the virus I have had no symptoms. I am going to take acourse of meds. I never had intercourse with this man. He wanted to but had no protection so I refused. Little did I know that was not safe enough. Get in and get checked!

  103. Anonymous says:

    Considering legal recourse! Sexual encounters involving deceit as a way to obtain “consent” may not in fact be consensual. One way to understand the law: when sex involving deceit qualifies as sexual misconduct is this: sexual encounters involving deceit are wrong when it is reasonable to believe that had you provided your sex partner with some information you have about yourself prior to the encounter, then he or she would not have agreed to have sex. This leads me to believe it’s time to call my attorney!

  104. Anonymous says:

    Wonder if we can file a class action lawsuits on behalf of all victims! CA, AZ, IL, WI. Just to list a few of the states. I wonder if Shelby can be called to court to give names of all the women daddy introduced as his girlfriend?

  105. Anonymous says:

    Don’t forget, Ohio, Alaska, Washington, North Carolina…..all states that Dave told me he’s lived. I am afraid to get tested. I was always so careful. But with Dave’s ED, I never thought anything could be spread. Once again, he has made me feel used, naive, stupid. If whoever just posted the class action lawsuit and is serious. I will get tested and if I am positive, I know it was Dave. And I of course would support you

  106. Anonymous says:

    I am so serious! Even if you are not positive, he is a predator and needs to be stopped! Who knows how long he has done this and to how many women? He’s only been I. This state for a year and a half. It’s hard to tell how many victims he has assaulted. Yes assaulted. He has deceived and compromised all if us. He has affected our future. I can no longer have sex with anyone unless I disclose my STD! I never would have had anything to do with him if I knew he was still married, engaged to someone, and dating a dozen other women. Or maybe men too! Who knows anymore! Did anyone ever consider that as a possibility?

  107. Anonymous says:

    I have a theory…in the very first post, the person said that she was told Dana was a long time family friend, and Dave only married her to commit insurance fraud and get her the medical attention she can’t afford. Let’s assume that this is the one thing that he didn’t lie about. Let’s assume that this marriage is only on paper. I mean, it’s been 2 mths and they still aren’t even living together. I could see before the marriage, but after? And look at their FB pages. 1 picture of their wedding. Wouldn’t you have multiple pics? And neither changed their status to married. Hmm. And between the two of them, they have 100s of friends (i noticed it before they hid them) and only 20 gave a like to their pic. Maybe it is purely a marriage of convenience on both parts. Maybe Dave married his buddy Dana. And when our posts started coming in, he asked her to defend him. How did she stumble upon this site? Dave is a narsaccist, and googles his own name daily. How,or why did Dana find it? She said that she has known him for years. If she knew him so well, why would she be looking up his name? I think Dave said, I did you a favor by marrying you, now it’s payback time. Defend me and make it good. The first poster said that Dave had threatened her, and was going to f**k her up. Maybe Dave told Dana if she didn’t post in his defense, he’d do the same to her. Dana stated that she would private message Cathy on FB to prove it was her. How do we know Dana didn’t give Dave access to her FB account? If my close friend that I knew for years told me there was a big smear campaign against him, I might do that to help. Maybe after Dana’s post she said to Dave, they aren’t stopping, you are such a dog that they don’t even believe me. And that’s why she quit posting. Not because her life is on fire, as she said, it’s because she’s only in it for the insurance, and really doesn’t give a s**t about Dave. And also, as the previous person said, maybe Dave has been with men. Maybe he has been denying his urges and sleeping with so many women, to prove to himself that he is straight. Maybe he doesn’t have ED, and merely wasn’t turned on by any of us because he is truly attracted to men. Dana gets her insurance and Dave gets his cover up. …sounds far fetched. But I wouldn’t put anything past Dave…..ladies, Your thoughts?

  108. Anonymous says:

    I too doubt it’s her reply and agree with your assessment of why he may have performance issues!

  109. Anonymous says:

    This does make so much sense. A true marriage of convenience. Dana gets her operation, and Dave retains his charade. I think that you have nailed it. I just wish Dave would have had enough conscience to not hurt so many innocent wonan, and had the courage to come out as a gay man. As I the only one who just had a major light bulb moment?

  110. Anonymous says:

    No, my lightbulb lit up as well! I think you both are spot on. Probably started back in that all boys school and the poor soul has been tormented for years!

  111. Anonymous says:

    He has stated to me when he was married his ex Amy was stopping having his separate life from her and being with the kids. I got the impression he resented her and getting married when he did. Also Dave gets scared taking anything over the counter since he did have a drug problem. He did take street drugs. He is just a monster worse that ever crossed my path. I still believe the marriage never happened if it did he doesn’t have his wedding ring on his finger, This SOB is so calculated that he will continue taking advantage of women as long as he can. He absolutely has no remorse what he has done. Karma is a b***h he will get whats coming to him. I am holding on to that.

  112. Anonymous says:

    I want to make sure that I haven’t been misunderstood. I hope that we can all agree there is nothing wrong with being gay. That is not a choice. And definitely not a crime. And it is not a crime to date multiple people. Male and female at the same time. Dave’s crime is dating multiple people, then telling each and every one of us that he was forsaking all others. There is nothing wrong with being gay. But I think that we can all agree that lying and cheating on every person who he made love him, while he was trying to figure out his sexually, is wrong, and almost criminal.

  113. Anonymous says:

    Dana and Dave are obviously still reading these posts. As soon as the theory was presented, that they were “married ” 2 mths and not even living together, and indeed just had a marriage of convenience, Dana immediately changed her FB page to say: lives in Whitelaw. What a joke! This almost confirms it! We all know she didn’t move to Whitelaw. Why didn’t she do it the day they got married. Oh! Maybe Dave had a date that night!

  114. Anonymous says:

    I think all the ladies involved could co author a best selling book. What would it be a love story….. no one would ever believe it was true. Instead of 50 Shades of Gray it could be…..hum….how many sides of David…or maybe David the Devil !

  115. Anonymous says:

    Certainly not a love story! Maybe a tragedy. I’m sure he has said we are psychotic and just out for revenge. If I was, I would have pulled a Lorraina Bobbit!

  116. Anonymous says:

    I’ve told this story to several people. So many have said that it sounds made up. My neice has a friend who is a writer. I’ve seriously though about pitching the idea to him!

  117. Anonymous says:

    Sad state that this story is not unique. Read some if the other posts and there is a commonality amongst.

  118. Anonymous says:

    Hey Dave, that’s a great book title!

  119. Anonymous says:

    I have a feeling that 1/2 or more posts here are from Dave, just stringing everyone along. Just for the drama!

  120. Anonymous says:

    I completely agree. How did he even find this site? The only way would be to Google his own name. Who does that? I’m quite sure that more than a few are from Dave. Did you notice that as soon as we called him out on the posts asking for mercy for Dana, those posts stopped? I really don’t think that Dana ever responded. Maybe she is aware of the page, but as his buddy, just let him post whatever he wanted to in her name. And I am quite sure that she isn’t living in Whitelaw. My neice posted a pic of my nephew birthday. It got 74 likes….but their wedding pic only got 20. Wouldn’t you be telling the world? And none of Dave’s family members either. This “marriage ” is just one more scam by Dave. I hope that his new employer in Colorado googles him and investigates the insurance fraud

  121. Anonymous says:

    Do we know for sure he got the job and is leaving the state?

  122. Anonymous says:

    I am the one he matched on Bumble. On that site, it uses the GPS on your phone, and shows your location. We were going to meet, but Dave said that he had a business trip to Colorado. And on the site it did indeed show his location as Colorado Springs. Whether he got the job or not, I don’t know

  123. Anonymous says:

    I will help him pack! Good riddance to one of the biggest a##holes ever to enter our state!

  124. Anonymous says:

    Be careful what you say! When Dave moved from Appleton to Whitelaw, I helped him pack in Appleton. He had “S” unpacking in Whitelaw. Same day! Same exact time! I wouldn’t be surprised if he has Dana pack him up in Whitelaw and the newest girlfriend will be waiting in Colorado helping unpack. And you are correct. The man is an embarrassment to our state. I hate that he ever called Wisconsin home. But then he’s called Washington, Alaska, California, Arizona, North Carolina, Texas, Ohio, Illinois, Wisconsin, and now Colorado home. TEN states? Did I forget any? WTF does that unless you are running away from something? Embarrassment to the state, his gender, his race, his friends and his family

  125. Anonymous says:

    Oh my gosh! What nerve he has to use you both! How did he keep you from going to his new place after you were done cleaning?

  126. Anonymous says:

    Their wedding photo and her name was posted online. That didn’t seem to bother her.

  127. Anonymous says:

    I totally agree with you. I don’t think Dave knows the real Dave.

  128. Anonymous says:

    I had been dating Dave since January of 2018 and we talked of marriage after about 3 months of dating but it was always in the distant future. I knew of his friends in KY and of his trips out there but never heard of the name Dana.
    When Dave started interviewing for his job in Colorado Springs I thought he and I were going to get married and move out there if he were offered the job. Now I find out that he married Dana, before he was offered the job and was still dating me ( and probably others). I feel extremely foolish. I fell for him, hook, line, and sinker. He truly broke my heart. I thought he was the one and I thought I was the one for him. I think he likes giving women that feeling.

  129. Anonymous says:

    The reply section was down for a bit. I had to go to another thread to reply. Basically he told me that he wanted a night alone at the new place to get the dogs settled in and adjusted. That was his story. But “S”was there all morning and unpacking everything for him….I just found a response buried in this thread. It says that she started dating Dave in January 2018…what? And he spoke of marriage after 3 mths! I am in Sheboygan Falls. S is in Appleton area, so is Cathy….can I ask where you are? How did things end?

  130. Anonymous says:

    How many times did he tell you he was sitting in his cry crying? Trying to pull himself together before going into a meeting. So broken and so sorry! Over and over again. Cancel last minute because he had forgot he had a daddy/daughter date? Or fell asleep in his chair? Lie after lie after lie. Can you really change at 57? Doubt it

  131. Anonymous says:

    I know. Technically 56 until tomorrow. It’s his birthday. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of him contacting me on OurTime. We were going to go out, and meet for the first time on his birthday. But he said that some friends from work wanted to take him out. We all know that he has no work friend’s. The truth is that “S” had gotten tickets to a show. Spent almost $200. Did he enjoy it you ask? Well no, because he cancelled last minute on her as well. Same story about work friends taking him out When I was helping him pack, I found a picture of him with a birthday cake. Obviously taken in a restaurant. Captioned: Happy birthday Dave. 11-28-2017.Love L***. I am not going to say the name that was signed. But I suspect that she has been posting as well. I of course asked who that was. He said a crazy ex girlfriend who ment absolutely nothing to him. I asked why he lied about going out with her on his birthday and not his friends. He said that she just put that date on it. They had gone out weeks before. ..always had an excuse.

  132. Anonymous says:

    I just saw that post too. It’s not in chronological order so I had to dig to find it. Yet another serious relationship since the beginning of this year? I’ve lost track of how many that makes now. How did he keep all this straight! I would need a personal assistant to keep track of that many calendars! Another broken heart. I am sorry for your pain!

  133. Anonymous says:

    Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry for you as well. Funny he told me L* was bat sh** crazy. His words. She was unstable, neurotic, bipolar, etc. He said they had one date and knew right off they were not right for each other. After that she was strictly his dog sitter. Yet a dog sitter that would sleep in his bed instead of his guest room? Hmm.

  134. Anonymous says:

    Yes! I got the L*** was bats**t crazy story as well! He told me that she contacted Amy. And then asked me what I thought of a woman that would do that. I said, yeah, sure, crazy. Not knowing then what I know now. I also went to his house in April, a few weeks before the move. There were a bunch of boxes packed. I said wow, you’ve been busy. He said that the dog sitter did it. Isn’t that odd? She’s a crazy ex, but he let’s her sleep in his bed, pack his personal belongings and watch his beloved dogs….I think we all know who was bats**t crazy

  135. Anonymous says:

    The reason some of our posts are not in chronological order, is I think that some posters are hitting the “reply” option directly under a post. Their post will then appear directly under the particular post they are commenting on. No matter when they post it. For example, if I hit the “reply ” option directly under the first posting, my post would appear under it. Even though I am posting today. To make sure your post is in chronological order, simply scroll to the bottom and click in the box under “leave a reply “. In the comment box. Id hate for your imput to be buried in the midst of the 100+ comments, with no one seeing it. Your voice should be heard….happy posting! Except Dave, rot in hell

  136. Anonymous says:

    I am curious where the love he meet in January lives and a first letter of her name? B? Bridget?

    Can’t believe he would lead you on and let you think you would move with him to Colorado. I bet it was so you would do his packing, house cleaning, cooking, and paying for things. I am sure he had many phones spent a lot of time in the bathroom, fell asleep, sick, family emergency.

  137. Anonymous says:

    These are his words…..”Can I share something with you? One night this week I had a complete meltdown. I couldn’t stop sobbing . I just couldn’t stop. You were the reason . I just couldn’t get the wait of how badly I treated you off my chest. I’m really really sorry ☹️” That was in the middle of June. At the same time he was juggling half a dozen (or more) relationships! Master manipulator!

  138. Anonymous says:

    I did “Been Verified” on Dave and they could not find any college education documents on David Randall Sanders.

  139. Anonymous says:

    My name is Barbara and I live in Peshtigo. I never did any cleaning, etc for him. I have cancer and can’t drive so he always had to come to me. I was totally oblivious to any of this going on until after he was married…imagine how I felt.

  140. Anonymous says:

    I got this email in August. “I live with the constant reminder that I crushed your heart. I am getting therapy and making great strides”. August 9th, 2018.

  141. Anonymous says:

    November 2nd….”I was seeing someone and they got a letter from guess who? “. You weren’t seeing someone you had just MARRIED someone! “I’ve decided I’m just going to tell women I just want sex and not a relationship . Im not good at that relationship thing. No commitments and no hassles. Just basic biology. “

  142. Anonymous says:

    Did anyone else get this? ” I had a dream last night, I was going down a train track and the track split. Each off into the mountains and I couldn’t see where they lead. One direction had lights, one smoke. Which do I choose? The smoke could be a campfire and safety. Or the smoke of an incoming train. The lights could be the lights of a city and safety or an oncoming train. Which do I choose?” That was his ” I want you so much but I’m just afraid to make a commitment, because I’ve been hurt” speech. Gag

  143. Anonymous says:

    Choo choo! I have a vision now of tying him to that train track! How a douchebag.

  144. Anonymous says:

    OMG yes I got the train story!!

    Dave you are married man and suck at relationships. You owe it to your wife to stop dating and screwing every women that buys into your sick charm.

  145. Anonymous says:

    Ladies, Dave is not worth another second of our time. He is a very sick man. Karma is a b***h and he will get what he deserves someday. He will cross the wrong person someday.

  146. Anonymous says:

    I am sorry Barbara! What an ass!

  147. Anonymous says:

    I’m so sorry! How did you find this site? Did he tell you he married?

  148. Anonymous says:

    Oct 20th I spent the evening with him. He told me he was going to have lunch with a group of friends in Door County . He said he was part of a support team helping to take care of you and the lunch was your way to get thank the group.

  149. Anonymous says:

    How about those late work nights? The Thursday night reports ? Who was Thursday date night? All those presentations he had to complete on Sunday night? Who’s night was this?

  150. Anonymous says:

    I always had Monday and Tuesday night.Never a Wednesday or Thursday. And like a portion of every other weekend. NEVER a Sunday night. He said that he always had reports due for the next morning. The weekend of the snowstorm in April (was it the 13th- 16th? Can’t remember) I got there Friday night. I was supposed to be there at 6, but I got there early because I wanted to stay ahead of the snow. When Dave got home , I was waiting in his driveway.( I have a grey Nissan Rouge incase any of you saw it in the driveway.) Instead of him being happy to see me, he seemed upset. He told me to wait in my car while he got “situated “. I’m sure he had told some of you that he would call you after work, and my showing up early messed that up. Sorry bout that. The storm wasn’t too bad yet, so we went out to eat that night. Red Robin. How many of you got the story that it was founded in Seattle and his grandmother used to take him there? It was their spot. And now it would be our spot. I bet he told more than one of us that one. We came back, spent the night packing (more free labor) and decided that we would go to the Queen Bee on college for breakfast. The spot of our first date on December 9th. By then the storm was going good. We went back to his place and pretty much didn’t leave until Monday morning. My work was cancelled, but Dave had to go in
    So I went out and shoveled for like 2 hours. So he could get ready for work. “S” later told me that he was on the phone the whole time with her while I hand shoveled his driveway for him..Just another example of his character. And this guy is in customer service?!..This truly is the Neverending story…

  151. Anonymous says:

    How about having to go to the ER for a small cut on your leg that was weeks old. Or having to take an emergency trip to Chicago to see an Eye Specialist because he was going blind? No Eye Drs here? He said his inability to perform in bed stemmed from being diabetic. In 6 months I never saw him test his blood sugars or take any insulin. He drank, ate high caloric food, and always had dessert. Told me he was vegetarian yet nearly every time we are out he would have meat. Had a line about this being his one cheat meal for the week. Embarrassed to say I bought all of his lies.

  152. Anonymous says:

    Oh yes, I remember those cancelled dates because of his eyes he had to stay in bed.

  153. Anonymous says:

    I was with him 6 mths. Never once saw him take levels. And the “this is my one cheat meat this week ” yup, heard that alot too. I also heard the story that his eyes were so sensitive, and he had an episode where he was bleeding from an eye…. It sounds like the previous person has posted twice. Nope this is a completely different person then the 7:43 am post. How on earth did he keep us straight? Did anyone get this: He was outside with the dogs late one night. He sent me the song “Dancing in the moonlight ” by King Harvest. He said that it reminded him of me. A couple weeks later I was at his house and it came on the radio. I said “Honey, remember this song “. He had no idea what I was talking about. I reminded him and he said, well I can’t be expected to remember everything. So I guess there were times he slipped up. I just never caught them.

  154. Anonymous says:

    Today is Dave’s 57th birthday. In lieu of the heinous, unconscionable way he has treated each and every one of us. I’ve decided it would be appropriate if we all received a gift on Dave’s birthday. Dave, I know that you are reading the posts daily. And you may not know what the gift is today, or tomorrow. But soon. And I want to put in writing that I would never physically harm or put anyone in any kind of danger. Dave made us all slaves to him with his psychological warfare. That is my inspiration. Do something that will emotionally harm him, but leave him physically intact. By the posts I can see that Dave is attracted to strong, intelligent woman. That just may prove to be his downfall……wait for it, wait for it….

  155. Anonymous says:

    I’m torn. I don’t know there is anything I could do that would bother him except to hurt those he loves. Like print out this thread and mail it to family in Seattle. Trust me I’ve thought about it!

  156. Anonymous says:

    Aww, you spoiled my suprise! I dont have the patience to wait for Dave to answer to God. I prefer that he answer to his family…..I believe that the proverbial Pandoras box has been opened

  157. Anonymous says:

    I hope Dana has left him and filed for an annulment.

  158. Anonymous says:

    My other thought is to print his photo with the big red cheater words across it, enlarge, post all over his workplace lawn with some shiny balloons. Maybe all over the main st of Whitelaw! Dave, I’d love to see your face when you leaves for work and sees the signs plastered over your neighborhood! Of course you would say a crazy ex did it. How could you have a crazy Ex in Wisconsin when you’ve been dating Dana for 4 years and have only lived here for 18 months?

  159. Anonymous says:

    Ladies he deserves a birthday he will not forget. Let’s give it to him.

    Dana does not deserve this a*****e. Get out now Dana! I think you have enough evidence. I am sick reading the page on how many there are snd the details.

  160. Anonymous says:

    She can’t divorce him. No marriage, no insurance. That’s the only reason she married him. They don’t even live in the same state. Sure, her Facebook page says she lives in Whitelaw. But Dave forgets. He’s in a very small town. With a lot of surrounding very small towns. And when you know one person, or maybe went to school in the area, well you know everyone. Dana does not live in Whitelaw

  161. Anonymous says:

    No wonder his voicemail box was always full!

  162. Anonymous says:

    I sent this link to his brother Damian. That’s the birthday gift I was talking about. Hopefully he reads it, and contacts his big brother and gets him the help he needs. That would be the best gift to us all. Not revenge. But that Dave stops and doesn’t devastate another life.

    Although I do like the blowing up his picture with Cheater all over his face idea….

  163. Anonymous says:

    I believe it is a big scam on both their parts. She is in it for the benefits. She supposedly moved here on the 6th. Reading back to “her” initial response she was intimating she could blast us for dating her fiance/husband but was taking the higher road. NONE of us knew we had anyone else! That sounds like *ucked up logic to me and probably was Dave!

  164. Anonymous says:

    Every one keeps telling Dana to get out. She doesn’t want to! Their marriage picture on Facebook got only 20 likes. And not one of them was a family member of Dave’s. Don’t you think that if it was a real marriage, every single one of his family would have commented or at very least a thumbs up? He got 72 comments when he posted his picture of him in his backyard in Appleton! It’s a fake marriage! The post from Dana was either written directly by Dave or most certainly dictated. She doesn’t care if he f**ks around. As long as she gets the insurance

  165. Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Dave! For your gift, I scheduled a meeting at your workplace with HR. Maybe I will see you in the hallways and you can thank me for the gift!

  166. Anonymous says:

    I sent it to Shelby, Amy, and Damian a week ago. I know Shelby and Dave both blocked me. I was just thinking last night about sending it to his Sister and Sister-in-laws. They should know how Big Dave treats women!

  167. Anonymous says:

    I love it! I would love to be a fly on the wall in that meeting! On August 9th, Dave tweeted: it’s not what you know, it’s who you know….like maybe the gas station attendant, or the mailman, or the secretary at the insurance agent around the corner from his house, or the realtor, or the landlord, or a nosy neighbor…….it really could be ANY ONE! I know for a fact that Dave has given NO NOTICE to leave his rental at 120 Parkview, in Whitelaw. The landlord requires 30 day notice to vacate…..guess he didn’t get the Colorado job after all. Maybe the HR department did a little digging

  168. Anonymous says:

    Oh thank you!!!

  169. Anonymous says:

    Yes….always full!!!

  170. Anonymous says:

    Ladies … another positive test for herpes

  171. Anonymous says:

    I have to call for my results! Yikes!

  172. Anonymous says:

    I was Thursday. B in Peshtigo. I was always surprised he didn’t want to come on a weekend since it was a long drive. The excuse I got was he needed to go to IL for the weekend to clean up the house to sell it.

  173. Anonymous says:

    I am so sorry. My very good friend has had it for 20 years. She has had 2 children since diagnosis and her husband does not have it. She has never had an outbreak and has never had symptoms. It is something that can be lived with. That being said, I’ve chosen not to get tested. Dave took so much from me. I don’t want him to take this too. I hope that doesn’t sound selfish. I just can’t bring myself to do it

  174. Anonymous says:

    I just came from my doctor and she told me they could not test for herpes unless u have a breakout. She is testing me for everything else. I will keep everyone informed if anything is positive.

  175. Anonymous says:

    Blood test can detect the HSV antibodies.

  176. Anonymous says:

    Your doctor is wrong. I had no symptoms but the blood work will show you have the virus. You may never have an outbreak but can transfer it.

  177. Anonymous says:

    As long as you are not active it really doesn’t matter. Please be safe!

  178. Anonymous says:

    My Dr did a blood test. Another positive test result. Get tested please!

  179. Anonymous says:

    If you don’t have a break out they can do a blood test. Expensive. But accurate

  180. Anonymous says:

    Anyone know his Twitter name?

  181. Anonymous says:

    I would love to know the outcome of the HR visit! Hope they fire him. He is a fake, look what he did to all these women.

  182. Anonymous says:

    Dave Sanders
    @DavidSa93508185

  183. Anonymous says:

    What is the update from our lady that went to HR?

  184. Anonymous says:

    His Twitter name is:
    Dave Sanders
    @DavidSa98508185

  185. Anonymous says:

    Ooops! I gave the wrong number!

    Dave Sanders
    @DavidSa93508185

    This one is correct

    Actually, if you Google Dave Sanders, scroll past all the Cheater stuff. His Twitter account comes up.

  186. Anonymous says:

    Has anyone noticed what he has across their picture on the FB page? Its : #HHM2018 , “Be the reason someone smiles ” ….HHM stands for: Happiness Happens Month ….are they for real? Do they have ANY clue the pain they’ve caused? And I say THEY, because I think that she is just as bad. She said that she was in a committed relationship with Dave for FOUR years. How could you be in a committed relationship since 2014, when Dave and Amy moved their school age children across the country from Mesa Arizona, to Homewood Illinois and bought a house in April 2015?…who’s the Cheater NOW Dana?

  187. Anonymous says:

    Please provide and update on the HR meeting and the health insurance fraud. Dave married Dana for insurance.

  188. Anonymous says:

    I spent a little money and did a background check on Dave. I learned some interesting facts. First, they could not find any documents for college or universities within the US. Second, he has owned two homes in his life and has foreclosed on both. Isn’t that interesting? That a man in a high executive job, which I assume would be well paying, would have trouble making house payments? And I was always told Amy was an RN or RN administrator. That’s good money.

    A woman on the CheaterLand site said she knew for a fact that he wasn’t the head of patient care at Appleton’s hospital. He was actually one of the customer service people who took complaints. I don’t know and frankly don’t care any more. It could be that he was using his $$ towards pot and women and that’s why he had no money.

    I also find it interesting he was always complaining to me that he did not have a good relationship with his son. How much you want to bet his son knew about his father’s cheating and has lost all respect for him?

  189. Anonymous says:

    Western Washington University in Bellingham WA is where he said he attended.

  190. Anonymous says:

    Did he foreclosure on Homewood? He told me he sold it.

  191. Anonymous says:

    Ladies did he also tell you how much he hates his job and boss at ThedaCare.

  192. Anonymous says:

    Are you sure about the foreclosures? I was at the house in Homewood. 17947 Loomis. According to Zillow it wasn’t a foreclosure and it was listed for $184,000. He dropped the price after a few weeks and sold it in October for $179.000. I was there in Feb 2018 to help pack and I didn’t get the fibe it was a foreclosure. His son was still living there, and they actually seemed like they were dragging their feet getting it cleaned and completely moving out. I own a cleaning business, and I have cleaned foreclosures for the bank. They are usually trashed. Dave and I scrubbed that place. If he was getting foreclosed on, why make the effort? Also he took S to homewood as well on cleaning trips. I met his son twice. And both times, they hugged hello and goodbye. Everything seemed fine. Also if you look at another thread on this site. The one with the picture the lady found on Bumble, you can see his work badge. It says: David Sanders. Director of patient experience….believe me. I think that Dave is scum. But I honestly think that he sold the house in Homewood not foreclosed. I think that he took a loss though. No equity in it. And I think that he really has the job he says. But lied about virtually everything else

  193. Anonymous says:

    Of course! How about the disasterous merger with the Cancer Center? How about the number of surgical mistakes that are made? He said there are more in one year than in 10 years at his previous employer.

  194. Anonymous says:

    I had my meeting with HR. I won’t have anything to report. If you know how these things go, HR takes the information and will investigate. If they find anything credible, they will deal directly with the employee. They will not report back to me. It’s between them and Dave now.

  195. Anonymous says:

    Thank you for your efforts! Good luck to you in your healing process ☺

  196. Anonymous says:

    Thank you for the person who went to HR.

  197. Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday A##hat! You deserve everything you are getting and so much more! I hope you rot in Hell! You and your scheming “wife”. It makes sense now why you continued to date after being “married”. If the marriage is a business arrangement between friends, you still need to get your fix! Can’t go cold turkey! Remember, they say daughters marry people just like their father. Have fun envisioning Shelby’s future!

  198. Anonymous says:

    Have you ever met his daughter? She is a sweet girl who seems to adore her father. I asked him one time, how he would like it if someone did this to her. He said that he’d kick their ass. Yet its totally acceptable for you to do it to someone else’s daughter? I pray that Shelby doesn’t fall into the pattern her father has set as an example

  199. Anonymous says:

    Cheater….cheater we found another girl friend!

  200. Anonymous says:

    Dave you are getting sloppy. You are leaving your trail! It is getting easy to track down all your woman

  201. Anonymous says:

    Dave what you doing in Black Creek? Another girl friend?

  202. Anonymous says:

    I took Dave to a Packer game in August. He spent a good part of the night on his phone. I could see he was texting someone and sending pictures of him sitting in my company’s box seats. I was upset. I told him it was rude and he agreed. He also said I was jumping to conclusions. He said he could show me his phone and there would be no surprises. Guess what Dave? I talked with the woman you were texting. She was more than a friend Dave you lying sack of s**t! Are you even capable of talking without lying? Do you tell do many lies that you believe them?

  203. Anonymous says:

    Ah…..he was texting more than one women. I got pics also. It appears every event hecess at he takes selfies and send them to all his lovers. That man loves his selfies and really thinks he is something. He is not very attractive. I look back and wonder what I was ever attracted to.

  204. Anonymous says:

    I am also asking myself what I ever saw in the man. I fell for who he prentended to be.

    How can any hospital with any morals employee this animal that preys on innocent people and destroys.

    His job is patient relations. I would not trust him to walk my dog.

  205. Anonymous says:

    I have a late birthday present for Dave. It involves a Facebook post. I am asking all my friends to make it go viral!

  206. Anonymous says:

    If it was the Thursday August 9th Packers game, he was emailing me. No pictures. It’s the email where he said that he has to live with the constant reminder that he crushed my heart. That was Thursday August 9th. Can’t remember the exact time. I’ve deleted it. He emails me because he can’t get ahold of me by text or phone call. I blocked him

  207. Anonymous says:

    Yup. I was at the Packer game with him. I feel so fuc*** humiliated!

  208. Anonymous says:

    I think his screwed up personally makes him good at what he does. He can take an angry upset person and manipulate them into feeling better about their bad experience. He can feed then lines of BS without even batting an eyelash!

  209. Anonymous says:

    Honey I’m sorry. There is very little comfort in this, but he treated us ALL like s**t. He didn’t do to you what he didn’t do to me. He had no favorites. We were all just play pieces to him. As of this posting, well over 200 stories. It is beyond reason at this point. He simply can’t be explained. I am truly sorry.

  210. Anonymous says:

    There is a silver lining in every storm cloud. I have met some amazing, strong, intelligent, incredible woman through this fiasco! Looking forward to seeing all of you soon!

  211. Anonymous says:

    True dat sista! We will raise one high to celebrate! Looking forward to the first annual meeting of “Women Dave has screwed over ” I better get there early! Seating is limited!

  212. Anonymous says:

    If anyone would like to join us we are meeting on Dec 8th. I will not post names or where we will meet. If you are interested in meeting respond and we will figure out a way to get contact info. This will not be a night of Dave bashing. He has taken far more of our time already. This will be a night to celebrate strength, survival, and make lemonade out of lemons!

  213. Anonymous says:

    Hey ladies, guess what! I had to take my dad for an Appt at the Medical Center yesterday in the late afternoon. While I was waiting I decided I would find Dave and give him an earful. I asked at the desk for his office and the woman said he no longer works there! I asked since when and she had no idea. It was dated 11/18. He must have gave his notice and is moving to Colorado! Should we line the streets of Whitelaw and wave goodbye?

  214. Anonymous says:

    Yes, I am in for the parade.

    Watch out Colorado!!!! You can have him.

    So glad he will be out of Wisconsin.

  215. Anonymous says:

    Operation Colorado can now begin!

  216. Anonymous says:

    Did you ever know that you’re my hero? You are the wind beneath my wings….such strong women I’ve met through this whole mess……Operation Colorado it is!

  217. Anonymous says:

    Sure hope Dana brought her snow boots and gloves! We all know Dave doesn’t shovel, or mow or rake or???? What does he do? Oh I know. He can spend his time inside sexting while you are outside working! Yup that’s the ticket!

  218. Anonymous says:

    Yes, I have a new hero and will enjoy some wine and dinner with my new friend. It is nice to know there other strong ladies like me!

  219. Anonymous says:

    Wow, what a ugly ring!

  220. Anonymous says:

    I couldn’t agree more. I’ve read other postings about other people, and there is name calling and a lot of trash talk. I have been very truthful.( No need to make anything up. The truth is crazy enough ) instead of trash talking each other, we have joined together. We now have a support group. I can only wonder how many times in their 20+ yr marriage, Amy found out about another woman, and Dave wrote her off as a crazy stalker. If Amy would have believed the other woman and contacted them, like we did, well maybe he would have gotten the help he so desperately needs much sooner . But no matter. We’ve all come out stronger on the other side. Can’t wait for the party December 8th!

  221. Anonymous says:

    You know I am so tired of this Dave bashing. Do any of you have children or had other relationships where people have messed up and hurt you? The first impulse is not revenge. It’s to forgive and move forward. And forgiveness is often more for you than the other person.

    And quite a few of you know about Dave’s drug addiction in the past. Am I the only one that can correlate that he is addicted to women? He is not a monster. He is a regular man with a problem.

    Why does our society so easily sympathize with alcoholics, drug addicts, and even people addicted to food?

    Yes, he has hurt people. I don’t think it was his intention. I think it was a man going down a slippery slope out of control.

    I’m appalled at many of you and your reaction. If someone were drunk but did nothing illegal would you really go to their workplace or email their family and tattle on them? Dave may have hurt you but it’s not for the world to see. It’s an addiction, just like any other kind of addiction.

  222. Anonymous says:

    I disagree. He is a mondtery. He is a sociopath. He had no conscious. He was well aware of his actions and in full control. Instead of visiting pawn shops to purchase ugly used rings, and instead of getting matching tattoos, maybe you should have been researching inpatient treatment facalties for this “sick” man?

  223. Anonymous says:

    It’s not for the world to see? I personally know of 3 woman who posted Dave’s pic on their Facebook page as their boyfriend. With his approval…Dave once asked me if I had ever been abused by a boyfriend. In fact I had. He was appalled that a man could hit a woman. I told him that I had been emotionally abused by another, and that abuse was FAR worse. Bruises heal. Emotional abuse doesn’t as easily. I told him this, and made it very clear. I said given the choice, I would rather be hit then cheated on. And then he made the choice to do it to me, OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Every once of embarrassments he has endured has been brought on by himself. You can’t be married, engaged and dating 3 or more women at once with out it being planned. Cold, calculated planning. One of the last thing he said to me was:” oh what a tangled Web we weave, when first we practice to deceive “…those are the words of a man who was making deliberate choices. He is getting off easy as far as I’m concerned. I love that you can’t Google his name with out this site and “Cheater ” all over his picture popping up. Coming soon…..pictures of their wedding rings. Look under “David Randall Sanders and Dana Lynne Sanders aka Dana Craig Sanders”…..

  224. Anonymous says:

    Stop defending him and get him help! Do you realize how many women he had hurt? These posts are a reflection of our pain! We are hurt, wounded, scarred for life. Some of us slept in your marital bed the day after you left town! Unknown to us that he was married! Probably was appalled by this as when you found out this had occurred. Frankly I’m not ready to stop. I don’t consider any of this bashing. It’s all true. Karma is a b***h and he will have to live with the consequences of his actions. You’ve hitched your wagon to his and you’ve chosen to stay. Sorry but mud from his wagon wheels is going to get splashed on you.

  225. Anonymous says:

    Like any other kind of addiction? Does the food cry itself to sleep at night? Does the cocaine stop socializing, for fear of being hurt? Does the whiskey have to explain to all their family and friends why Dave isn’t there? In a civilized society, people need to take responsibility for their heinous actions. He has not taken any responsibility. And you mentioned that he did nothing illegal…either have we

  226. Anonymous says:

    I did forgive him Dana. He showed great remorse. This was over the summer. He sucked me right back in. At the same time he was convincing me that he was a changed man he was professing his love for 4 or 5 others for certain and who knows how many others! He sat on my couch and cried buckets of tears. Filled towels with tears. He probably left my house and went to dinner with someone else! He is the worst person and closest to the devil I have ever encountered.

  227. Anonymous says:

    I’m not ready to stop either!

  228. Anonymous says:

    Whether his actions are illegal is yet to be determined. I was in a really good place to put this chapter behind me and move forward. Your post has me reconsidering legal action. What this man did is sexual assault. Some states clearly consider this RAPE. Imagine the case of the famous film producer telling an aspiring actress that if she sleeps with him, he will transform her career. She agrees. But as soon as it’s over, she finds out that he was lying. He isn’t the producer she thought he was; he’s a creep who made it all up.
    This man tricked her for sex. That is exactly what Dave did to us! Rape by fraud or Sexual Assault by deceit. You can’t give consent when it is based on lies!

  229. Anonymous says:

    Deceiving another person in order to have sex with them is morally wrong when it prevents the other person from giving fully informed consent to the act (Rubenfeld, 2012-2013). The reason for this is that informed consent cannot be given when you don’t really know what you agree to when agreeing to have sex.
    In 2010 a married Israeli Arab Muslim man, Sabbar Kashur, was convicted of rape by deception after pretending to be a Jewish bachelor interested in a long-term relationship. Exactly what Dave was doing. Over and over again to many women at the same time.
    Wake up and smell the coffee!

  230. Anonymous says:

    How you can defend him is beyond logical understanding! Maybe you think you are going to be the one who can love him enough to make him change. That’s what I thought. I’m sure most of us did.

  231. Anonymous says:

    I concurs!

  232. Anonymous says:

    Dana,

    Good luck with Dave. He truly needs to be checked into a treatment facility. You may have appealed personally to some of the women. There are so many victims that need to tell there story to be able to move on. There could be in excess of 100. Some of the women have had more time to recovery but for others the wounds are fresh.

  233. Anonymous says:

    I completely agree with the above. Deceit for sex. I would have never consented to sex had I known he was married.

    Image how a good honest women feels when they find out. The scars are for a life time. He hurt many and some will not get over it.

  234. Anonymous says:

    I did not know of any drug addiction. One of the things he did not share. He did tell me he smoked weed and that Any made him quit when they had kids. If you can stop something at will, at someones request, I would not call that an addiction. I would call that a choice!

  235. Anonymous says:

    “The first impulse is not revenge, it’s to forgive and move on “….like I tried to do? I found out about “S” and tried to move on. But Dave begged me back, introduced me to his daughter as his girlfriend. And oh, I later found out that Dave was actually face timing with S on the drive home from him picking her up at college. Told S that he loved her when he hung up, and then I am waiting in Whitelaw. Having got up at 5am to put his daughters room together, clean, do 7 loads of wash, and make supper. Dave gave me a key to the place that day. It meant a lot to me. But just before I left on Sunday, he asked for it back. Because he had said that he forgot to make a copy for his daughter…..yes the FIRST impulse is to forgive. I’m working on that second one now

  236. Anonymous says:

    Key wording….”did nothing illegal”. If someone tells you they intend to rob a bank, they have technically done nothing illegal yet. You know they intend to. Do you do nothing or report it? If you don’t report it aren’t you somewhat responsible. So if I have the information that someone is committing insurance fraud, I think it is my responsibility to turn that information over to the authorities. I call that doing the right thing. You call that tattling? You two may be a perfect match!

  237. Anonymous says:

    Directly from Dave……..You consider this moral? Legal? Sounds like a business arrangement and insurance fraud! 1- I want to appeal to your higher angel . Who really gets punished . She knows what she’s getting into if she decides to move forward. She lost her job and is on disability and is in need of surgery. She’s on my insurance now and soon will have access to one of the 10 best hospital systems in America. You’ll not only be hurting me (which I deserve) but you’ll be hurting someone who absolutely has nothing to do with my conduct. We’re living in the short term till she gets better then we’ll decide long term.

  238. Anonymous says:

    I had my doubts if this marriage was “real” but the ring tattoos convinced me ?

  239. Anonymous says:

    I think that 100 is a fair total. He’s been here a year and a half. At least 6 women we know of. That’s an average of 4 a yr. 25ish yrs of unfaithful marriage…yeah 100 is about right

  240. Anonymous says:

    Divorced November 2017 married Dana September 2018. Think about it ladies many of us slept with a married man. This is so sick. I handful of ladies that have connected would have never done that and are mortified.

    His family was contacted so that they could encourage him to get help.

  241. Anonymous says:

    Directly from Dave……..You consider this moral? Legal? Sounds like a business arrangement and insurance fraud! 1- I want to appeal to your higher angel . Who really gets punished . She knows what she’s getting into if she decides to move forward. She lost her job and is on disability and is in need of surgery. She’s on my insurance now and soon will have access to one of the 10 best hospital systems in America. You’ll not only be hurting me (which I deserve) but you’ll be hurting someone who absolutely has nothing to do with my conduct. We’re living in the short term till she gets better then we’ll decide long term.

    Reply

  242. Anonymous says:

    OMG! Dave messaged that to you? Dana HAS to know it’s just about the insurance. Tattoos and pawnshop ring all to try to convince the insurance company! That’s the only reason she is defending him. If she doesn’t, he pulls the plug and divorces her, leaving her with no insurance….all makes sense now!

  243. Anonymous says:

    His words verbatim!

  244. Anonymous says:

    Makes sense! And we keep forgetting. Dana says that she has been in a committed relationship with Dave for 4 yrs….she is the ONLY one who knew she was having an affair with a marriage man who just moved his wife and children to another state and bought a house! SHAME ON YOU DANA!

  245. Anonymous says:

    I’ve printed out the entire thread today. If this site goes away like the other, I have this to repost on whatever takes it’s place. And rest assured something will take it’s place. Oh the joys of technology and internet!

  246. Anonymous says:

    Dana, this is Bonnie. I am the one that matched with Dave in late October into early November. Some of us women have figured out ways to connect , and communicate with each other. Through this I heard that you think his Bumble account couldn’t possibly have come from his phone. You mean his Wisconsin phone? Arizona phone? Illinois phone? And shortly after we started corresponding, he sent me a pic of his dogs. One was black and one was long haired yellow, with 3 legs. He captioned it ” meet Beauregard and Trooper:. I also commented on his hardwood floors looking like barn board. If these things are false and someone was possing as him, accept my apologies. I’m just trying to keep it real.

  247. Anonymous says:

    Here’s a good one! He was telling me about his friend coming to visit! Dave – “They’re coming late tonight . Just got let go at work so moved their flight up .” Me…Who got let go? Dave – My friend.

  248. Anonymous says:

    Dave – I’m cleaning Shelby’s room so she can stay there. Me,,,,Can I ask if she is more than a friend? Dave – More like a sister, although there may be a desire on her part for more. I’m friends with the whole family so it would feel weird. That’s why she’ll be in Shelby’s room. I’ll be working so she’ll be looking online for jobs. So on July 25th there is only a brother/sister relationship and 2 months later you marry your “sister”?

  249. Anonymous says:

    By the way, your picture of your rings and tattoos looks really good against the wood table that S gave you! If I was Dana I’d burn your mattress and get rid of all the furniture. The beds been slept in by dozens, some in the same weekend without even changing the sheets. Who knows what you did on the couch and table! Yuck!

  250. Anonymous says:

    Here is the other part …..In a few hours we will get the news that will allow us to start over in a new location with her getting the care and opportunities she needs. Sure I probably need to be dragged back into the past and punished but does she? Especially since she is very well aware of my behavior and is dealing with it.

  251. Anonymous says:

    Wait…..so the “dog sitter” slept in his bed all the time but he had his future wife sleep in his daughters room? Maybe this is a sham and it’s only for insurance. Of course what kind of insurance do you have when you are unemployed? He either quit or was fired from Thedacare.

  252. Anonymous says:

    That is a really good point. His dog sitter slept in his bed. His future wife slept in his daughters room. I’m wondering which story you are going to go with Dana? If you say that you slept in his daughter room, aren’t you concerned that you are the one woman Dave didn’t want to sleep with? And if you you say that you slept in Dave’s bed, well then that makes him a liar. Because we have the text from Dave’s phone telling another one of us that he has no feelings like that for you. And you are like a sister. Sleeping with you would be weird. You can argue that Dave was lying. And just made up the sister story. If he loved you, why would he do that. Because he was trying to get the other woman into bed with him.

  253. Anonymous says:

    Id like to address the posting dated December 2,2018. 8:15pm, with out it getting buried in all the replies…you say that you are sick of the Dave bashing. Don’t you think that we are sick of being afraid to trust again? He’s left a permanent mark on many of us. I bet Dave is reading these posts and for the most part can’t figure out who is posting. I bet he is thinking, well I pulled that s**t on so many, it could be anybody. Let me give an example of something he did, and then he will have no doubt..on February 8th,2018 Dave escorted S to her mother’s funeral. You know how it is when someone elderly dies, it’s like a family reunion. Many pictures were taken. With Dave in every one of S’s family pictures. Who deliberately does that? He knew that she meant nothing to him, but still happily posed in each picture, right along side of S, showing everyone what a rock he was for her. Her mother’s funeral! S was understandably shaken. So Dave drove her home and stayed with her. But not overnight. He had to get home and get some rest. Because 8 hours later, at 8am Friday morning, February 9th, Dave picked me up and took me away to Homewood for the weekend. We stayed at the 5 star hotel La Banque. Had a very romantic weekend. We had a large bathroom with a whirlpool tub. Dave and I took a romantic bath together. I met his son & girlfriend. We left Sunday morning and he stopped in for just a moment. He said that he had a big presentation Monday morning and had to work on it. I’m wondering who he saw on Sunday? ……this to me is the most sickening story. To take someone to their mothers funeral (and by the way, he was texting me during it saying he couldn’t wait to see me) and then 8 hours later, pick up another woman for a romantic weekend. And you have the nerve to say that he is not a monster, just a regular man with a problem. I rest my case

  254. Anonymous says:

    Wow, this is an all time low for any man. Be thankful he is out of your lives.

    Hoping his wife and family get him help.

  255. Anonymous says:

    I’m so sorry for everything this monster has put you through! I hope you realize how amazing and strong you are to have survived this ordeal! Only time will heal your wounds. Unfortunately I think the scars are permanent.

  256. Anonymous says:

    I have a huge scar on my thumb from where I cut myself as a child. Like the scars Dave has inflicted upon all of us, it is permanent. It will never go away. But I got it doctored, and it healed. It no longer causes me any pain. I needed to go through a process to make it heal. This site is our process. You may plead for mercy and for us to stop. But our treatment isn’t complete. I just read the text Dave sent to another woman. How Dana knew about all the woman, and fully understood what she was getting into. She paints herself as a fellow victim. She had the audacity to call us her sisters. She is not a sister, nor victim. She is an sccomplice. Plotting their next move over their morning coffee…my wounds were still pretty fresh. The last plea for Dave’s soul opened them up again. I thought that I was almost healed. But not yet. I need more treatment. And as memories of the heinous actions Dave inflicted on me come back. I will be posting

  257. Anonymous says:

    He’s a monster and he does need help!
    FYI- was it ever mentioned that S CHOSE to engage in a sex only relationship with for nearly 5 months AFTER she discovered he was a cheater?

  258. Anonymous says:

    Don’t know how I spelled that wrong…*accomplice

  259. Anonymous says:

    Dave is very open to discussing what he did. I’ve talked to him and he is sincerely apologetic but there is more to the stories than what you see here.
    Did R let anyone here know he actually showed her the first cheater website and admitted to what was on it? Her reply was “I don’t care if you see other women”. Now she’s joining in this parade when she was an active participant.
    M. Is another woman he disclosed the website to . She smartly bailed yet here she is joining the fun.
    There are more missing parts of the story . Again Dave did horrific things to many women! But not all of the people posting are as innocent as they would like you to believe.

  260. Anonymous says:

    Are you kidding me? You are just as sick as him! Yes, in the beginning if a relationship no one expected exclusivity. However, when you MARRY someone while you are dating someone and you neglect too tell the other partner? That’s entirely wrong! How can you justify any of this? You may need just as much help as him! And when he invited that women to his home, and invites that women to his bed the DAY you leave town? If she hadn’t seen your name on a prescription in the trash she would not have even known. It’s one thing to have sex with a man who is seeing others. Game changes when he gets married Dana!

  261. Anonymous says:

    Can you prove these things Dana? Can he show you the messages? I don’t believe one word out of his mouth. I have written proof of anything I have said. I saved every message and every text. I even saved every voicemail. That you would even suggest he doesn’t get ALL the blame is like saying the woman wearing the skimpy dress deserved to be raped! Remember B from Peshtigo who is dealing with Cancer? Whatvwas her sin? Dave wants to talk. Let’s do that! All of us together in one room. Let him try and deny his actions!

  262. Anonymous says:

    If S broke up with your FIANCE in June your 5 months doesn’t even make sense! He was your fiance then right? You’ve poked the bear and stolked the fire my dear!

  263. Anonymous says:

    Dateline: Whitelaw…we take you to the kitchen of the Sanders household. Conversation over their morning joe…

    Dave: I’ve kept up my end of the bargain. Why aren’t you? Why aren’t you defending me more?
    Dana: well I thought that the Facebook post and tattoos would convince them. I’m sorry, you have lied to so many, they just don’t believe me. What else can we do?
    Dave: well I called every friend I have and could still only get a combined total of less than 50 likes on Facebook…think woman think! You better come up with something. Or I am getting an annulment. No insurance!
    Dana: I don’t think that we are going to stop them by our asking for mercy. The only hope we have is if we turn them against each other.
    Dave: go on, I’m listening
    Dana: I’ll post that you are truly sorry. And actually told your most recent victims about what you have done in the past. I’ll throw in that some have contacted you and wanted you back in their bed. I’ll get a ” he said/she said dialogue started. They will be so busy calling each other, they will lose interest in the site
    Dave: brilliant! Let’s do it. I’ll dictate

    AND…..SCENE!

  264. Anonymous says:

    When your fake marriage and insurance scam is being threatened I guess one gets defensive? Marriage takes place at the end of September. No social media posts about it until a “wedding” picture in mid November? Rings don’t appear until Dec. 2nd. Hmmmmmm I smell a fish!

  265. Anonymous says:

    “I know, honey. I’m still fantasizing about revenge, so I totally get it. I’m not sure that I can stay with him, but I will try to get him some help. I have been tricked into marrying him, but those vows really meant something serious to me, so I’m going to try to honor them, not because of who he is, but because of who I am. We’ll see how that goes. I can only take so much.”

  266. Anonymous says:

    Hey, honey. Thanks for letting me know about those reporting the positive test results. We both got tested this morning. I was there for his test and will definitely be on top of his results. I’ll keep you posted. I’m about to go mad, but one positive thing is that we’re in therapy together now. At least that’ll help keep me sane. I sincerely hope it helps Dave as well. As you’ve said, this certainly wasn’t how I anticipated starting my new life here in Wisconsin, but I’m only one person who’s been hurt by his selfishness.

    Take good care of yourself and don’t let them work you too hard!

    Dana

  267. Anonymous says:

    What? Those are from Dana? Is she your buddy? Are you two doing lunch? How condescending of her to call you “Honey”

  268. Anonymous says:

    She was faking nice to manipulate and I was faking nice right back! At first I bought her sincerity. Then I had to ask myself why. I wouldn’t have anything to do with one of my fiances hareem. I wouldn’t have anything to do with an ex who was part of a group formed to hold her husband responsible for his actions. She knew I had contacted family. She read the letter I threatened to make go viral in our community. Yet she continued to play nice? I’m not that stupid Dana.

  269. Anonymous says:

    Your attempts to deflect are pathetic! Change the focus? Nice try though not an A for effort by any means! Bragging that your “fiancee” had sex with another woman for 5 months? She was single and had every right to do so if she chose (which I don’t believe at all). He on the other had was in a committed monogamous ??? relationship with you, R, B, and who knows how many others! Boy you caught yourself a real prize “sister”!

  270. Anonymous says:

    By the way Dana, when you are packing up the house for your move to “Washington” be on the lookout for some items. Suitcase belongs to C, Chromecast belongs to J, Teapot belongs to D, Canvas picture of S belongs to S, Sex toys belong to his ex wife (because who wouldn’t hang onto their ex wife’s used toys), Undies….well most of those were discarded by the 2 girlfriends who were packing his last move. Oh and C lost a Silver hoop earring the last time she was there in August! Stay Warm!

  271. Anonymous says:

    Check the bottom drawer of the dresser!

  272. Anonymous says:

    Sorry! Too many initials to keep track of. Teapot belongs to S.

  273. Anonymous says:

    Could you also point out where M commented on this website? there was a Whitelaw Mary that commented on the cheaterland website. I don’t recall reading any comments from someone with the initial M on this website. Not to say that I didn’t miss it because we can all see how many posts this has generated.

  274. Anonymous says:

    Operation Colorado has now begin. University of Colorado Hospital. Amy Searls. HR.

  275. Anonymous says:

    UC Health – Colorado Springs.

  276. Anonymous says:

    Love the part of the song that says you keep playing where you shouldn’t be playing, you keep thinking you’re are never going to get burned. I just found a brand new box of matches. Kind of how I feel today!

  277. Anonymous says:

    I assume that the 25 miles song was posted by Dave and Dana. Just another example of how these two are absolutely clueless to the pain they have caused. . Or worse, they are aware, and simply don’t care. Making light of the lives Dave has changed, altered, and for some, destroyed. Blaming single woman for loving an engaged man. For loving a married man. Who they were told was single. It’s like saying that the man who shoots a gun isn’t at fault. The person who was in the way of the bullet is. Such a heartless action to post that song. And Dana, you have the nerve to say that Dave is truly sorry and has changed. Actions speak louder then words. On your supposed trip to Colorado/Washington , in your downtime look up the definition of sociopath. Don’t be surprised if you see a picture of Dave.

  278. Anonymous says:

    Dave did you pull that song up from your library of songs? The ones we used to listen to? Dana, has he sang to you “No other love” by Common Kings? Has he looked into your eyes and sang ” I can put you on a throne if you’re ready “? Yes? Because you aren’t the first, or even second. Virtually nothing he has ever said or did with or to you, is unique. Every time he says that he wants to watch Kobra Kai on Netflix, know it was someone else’s favorite. When he drinks the Kentucky moonshine, know he did it with another. When you decorate your Christmas tree. Know that the John deere ornament was from another. When Earth Wind and fire comes on the radio, know that he went to their concert with another. When he lays his keys on the half circle table, with the French writing on it, know it came from another. When you touch him and he says, oh right there, no one has ever made me feel like that. Rest assured, many others have. To know that every single thing he says or does with you is yesterday’s garbage to Dave. Well I couldn’t live like that. But then again, after posting that song, I realized you have no conscious. So I guess it doesn’t matter

  279. Anonymous says:

    Another “Obessession Session” begins for Rhonda, Sue , Cathy and Judy.
    Nice to know there is so much free time in the dental, insurance , paper costing, and cleaning businesses.
    Amazing how much Dave (and now Dana) bashing takes place during work hours.

    I’ll be sure to let them know…
    https://youtu.be/yoPYQ-FmQB4

  280. Anonymous says:

    This is Judy. Most of the work time posts are from me. I’m self employed. And as Dave said in the email he sent me, (requesting my services) “differences aside, you are very good at what you do” dated October 22nd. 3pm. He had just matched my friend on Bumble,so I calked her to check his location . It was Appleton. Work time emails to me. And work time fishing the Internet for new woman. Now that he has lost his job at thedacare, I guess that is irrelevant. Also “to keep things real” as someone said…the time on the posts are not when they were penned. It’s when they air. I sent one at 11pm once and it aired at 10am. So to accuse my sisters of doing this during work time is unfair. On the other hand, I have proof Dave has done worse on company time. Now the phrase “obsession session “. Yeah, I’ll give you that one. I admit that I am slightly obsessed. But a few months ago I had this really great guy who literally told me that he was obsessed with me. Well he didnt tell me, he put it in a sweet little text. With a bitmoji and hearts. So I guess I learned from the master how to be obsessed. So feel free to call my employers. I have 24

  281. Anonymous says:

    And you forgot about Barbara from Peshtigo, L***, Bonnie from Bumble, M…we can’t figure out who that is. So many, only Dave know the true number. Also to assume that the posts are from the 4 you named, well that’s just silly. We have been comparing notes and he has used the same lines, and has pretty much the same M.O. on all of us. To assume that it is only 4, well maybe 100. By the way. It’s Judy again! I’ll be sure to sign my posts in the future

  282. Anonymous says:

    What I do on my vacation is my business. I took off the week to unpack from moving myself. I didn’t have any boytoys to do my unpacking and cleaning! I will post to my hearts desire!

  283. Anonymous says:

    From Dana……..”

  284. Anonymous says:

    Hello. This is Dana. Believe me or not. I feel no need to justify myself to any of you. I’ve remained above the pettiness, but you all have crossed the line. You think that you are hiding behind the cloak of anonymity, but you can easily be tracked by your IP addresses. Yes, this can cut two ways.

    I am now taking this to the police. You all have broken the stalking laws for Wisconsin. Dave has hurt you, but this punishment does not fit the crime. I am going to let the authorities handle this. I will also be contacting your HR departments to let them know that you are being charged with cyber-stalking. This treatment is no longer without recourse for the victims.

    And by the way, you’ve all made much of Dave’s ED, so you’ve weaponized that fact. Has he retaliated with any personal information about YOU that you’d rather the world not know?

    He has a problem…a big problem. But he’s a human being and needs help. He’s getting help. We’re in therapy together. Did any of you who professed to love him get him help?

    And, yes, I lost my job. I was planning to quit anyway after the wedding. I went back to KY for a few weeks to finish packing up my house. So I HAVE been currently on his insurance. However, and I SO hate to disappoint you all, but I now have a job. I am a Microsoft Certified network engineer and quite easily got a pretty good job working from home, so I now have my own insurance and I’m not in this marriage as an act of convenience. But even I were, and If anyone wants to report me for insurance fraud, knock yourselves out. I’ll dial the number for you, although I honestly don’t know who would care. And let me make something clear. I have no need to be loved by strangers. What I do is absolutely none of your business.

    One last point – ask your medical professionals what the chances of transmitting herpes to/from someone with ED. Don’t take my word for it, just do your own research. It’s slim to none. It’s hard to imagine that he would be responsible for multiple women contracting the disease. Medically, it’s almost impossible.

    Again, you all have broken multiple laws for stalking and harassment, both for me and for Dave. I have tried to be a lady about this, but you’ve gone too far. I’ll let the police deal with it. And for all of you from outside of Wisconsin, there are interstate statutes that cover that to. So there’s a little something for everyone.

    Among the laws broken include:
    Contacting our family members
    Contacting or trying to effect our employment statuses
    Posting pictures online without our permission
    There are others, but that’s kind of the highlights.

    Dana

  285. Anonymous says:

    So trying to “shame” me into silence? Threats….just like when you told me you would “f**k me up” if I contacted you family? Dave you know me…..you know I was only trying to get you help! I wouldn’t have done anything intentional to hurt you. Just like you never intended to hurt me with your heinous actions! Cathy

  286. Anonymous says:

    Go to town sister! I have also filed my on police report. One for the threat of harm, and one for obtaining sex under false pretenses! See you at the station!

  287. Anonymous says:

    Your husband is the one who said your marriage was so you could get benefits. That was not made up! He put that in writing to me. So if I pass that along to his employer I’m wrong? I don’t think so!

  288. Anonymous says:

    We can spend lots of my on attorney fees. Oh wait .. My brother is my Attorney. I get the family discount.

  289. Anonymous says:

    Every picture used on this site are pictures taken from the Internet. Via Facebook or one of the many dating sites Dave was on. None were personally sent to an individuals phone or email. While I’m sure Dave has sent one or more pics to us, the ones used were pulled from his Bumble, tinder, and OurTime profile pictures. Each site has an “agree” button. Once clicked, you are basically signing off on each pic. Facebook has a similar policy. Are you going to prosecute every one that shared your wedding pictures without your permission? Oh wait, their aren’t any

  290. Anonymous says:

    And to answer your question Dana, I have spent the last 7 or 8 months encouraging Dave. I have listened to countless conversations about what he was working on in therapy. He told me many times how hard he was working to get better. I believe now it was all bull. I told him any therapist worth their weight would tell him to remove himself from the dating scene and concentrate on himself. He said that was done. Another lie. When he told me he was an awful person, I told him no! Your a good person who made some bad mistakes. All this time he was continuing his hurtful and destructive behavior. He told me he was toxic that he sucked as a human being. I supported him, told him he was getting help and he could get better. I encouraged him at every opportunity! He continually told me all cards were on the table. Lying all along.

  291. Anonymous says:

    Inevitable – certain to happen, unavoidable.

  292. Anonymous says:

    Whoo hoo! 300 posts!

  293. Anonymous says:

    #301

  294. Anonymous says:

    Bump ?

  295. Anonymous says:

    Top 5 list!

  296. Anonymous says:

    Wonder if that list is in any particular order?

  297. Anonymous says:

    I think that it is in order of views. I wonder how many views it would take to make this thread #1? Hmmm……

  298. Anonymous says:

    I love a challenge! And go!

  299. Anonymous says:

    I enjoy a challenge as well

  300. Anonymous says:

    Because what’s life without facing challenge?…. It’s constantly running away.

  301. Anonymous says:

    Nice to see the site is back up.

  302. Anonymous says:

    I missed you

  303. Anonymous says:

    Ladies, there is hope for us all! Personally, if I had not been through this experience, I would not have met some wonderful ladies! One who has introduced me to a real, honest, genuine man who doesn’t lie,cheat, or break promises!

  304. Anonymous says:

    You are welcome my sister! The glass is half full! I think many of us are coming out of this stronger than we ever thought possible. We’ve learned to be cautious, not suspicious. We’ve learned to be observant, but not nosy. We’ve learned that if we open our hearts to the right people, they will be there to fill it with trust and love, and not break it. We are moving forward. Yet we all know that there is one person who is still up to some old tricks. The leopard really doesn’t change spots. The perfect poetic ending that all the fair princesses meet their true Prince Charmings. And the evil King and Queen live miserable lives. Filled with mistrust, doubt, lies, and infidelity. I’m quite sure that their is trouble in their kingdom already. No matter, there is joy in Cheese land! Let the joyous news be spread! The wicked old witch at last is dead! Fa-la-la-la-la!

  305. Anonymous says:

    Oh my friend! You make me LOL! I love you Sister!

  306. Anonymous says:

    Yeah, I get that alot..

  307. Anonymous says:

    #315….

  308. Anonymous says:

    #316…. keeping it front and center so all those Colorado ladies are informed.

  309. Anonymous says:

    #317…guess what? Some people actually use professional websites such as LinkedIn for flirting and as dating sites! Who knew? I guess when your being watched on dating sites you have to have some way to get your fix!

  310. Anonymous says:

    I’ve heard about men who use LinkedIn as a dating site….hmmmmm….can’t think of any

  311. Anonymous says:

    It’s probably just a rumor! Any newlyweds would have no need…….right?

  312. Anonymous says:

    Obviously. If you are a newlywed
    Why on earth would you POSSIBLY mention that others have used LinkedIn as a dating site?

  313. Anonymous says:

    Trust me, I got the better end of the deal!

  314. Anonymous says:

    And as a happily married newlywed, why would you POSSIBLY be looking at sites like this and constantly commenting?

  315. Anonymous says:

    I think that the high altitude is getting to you

  316. Anonymous says:

    Well it is important to keep abreast of what is on social media. After he blows through this job he will need to know what’s out there that his next employer will discover.

  317. Anonymous says:

    The over/under is 14 mths….I’m laying odds that he will quit because he has to move on again or will get fired because of his constant non work related correspondence during work hours. Any one want some action?

  318. Anonymous says:

    I want in on the action! My guess is gone date April 2020.

  319. Anonymous says:

    That’s 16 mths. 2-1 odds on the under. Even money over.

  320. Anonymous says:

    Who knows? Maybe it depends on how “well” his wife is and if the medical issue that she needs is taken care of by then?

  321. Anonymous says:

    #329 😊

  322. Anonymous says:

    In case you are counting.

  323. Anonymous says:

    Oh yes. The medical attention his sister-like-wife so desperately needs. Maybe once she gets it, he’ll run away again. Because I don’t think that he’s ever been in one city and kept a job for more than 2 yrs.

  324. Anonymous says:

    #332 😜

  325. Anonymous says:

    😅

  326. Anonymous says:

    Happy Friday! Looking forward to a great weekend with my sister’s. I wish some of you others would reach out to us. Via Facebook or twitter. Meeting the other women and sharing/comparing our stories has been both heart breaking, and therapeutic. As someone said : Whats life without facing challenge. It’s constantly running away. I’ve faced the challenge of meeting with several of “the other women “. I was afraid of what they would think of me. Being with their boyfriend, but miracle of miracles occurred. We talked, compared notes, and bonded through our shared unbelievable grief. I’m closer to them then some of my family members. I am reaching out to the other women. Contact us. We are here to help you get past this. It can happen. Ive seen it! Again, happy Friday! And bring on the bubbly!

  327. Anonymous says:

    I know for a fact that 3 of our sisters have found love. And a fourth is dating. There are good honest loving men out there. We just have to be patient and find them ❤

  328. Anonymous says:

    Thanks for the update and encouragement hun! I would not be where I am today without the live and support of my sister’s!

  329. Anonymous says:

    #337! Every post helps to keep this from getting buried amongst all the other posts! Can’t search that name or several variations without this site popping up! 😊😊😊

  330. Anonymous says:

    I know, I love it! I believe the phrase we are looking for is : “he made his bed, now he has to lie in it”……(and lie and lie and lie)

  331. Anonymous says:

    LOL! Soooooo true!

  332. Anonymous says:

    Looking forward to seeing my sisters tomorrow. 😀😀😀

  333. Anonymous says:

    My sisters have helped me heal and trust and fall in love with an honorable and very caring man! I had to go through some heart last year but I know now to never settle. I would have settled if I continued with you know who!

  334. Anonymous says:

    I know that you are falling, my dear sweet little sister! I am so glad you let yourself trust again. See you tomorrow!

  335. Anonymous says:

    Hey does anyone know if tattoos wash off? Just curious!

  336. Anonymous says:

    I was wondering the same thing! Because I know these 2 people who got each other’s initials tattooed on their ring fingers. But in their Facebook post, you can see them “just chillin ” on the couch. She is sitting there looking very solemn, with her arms crossed. If you blow up the picture, you can clearly see there is no tattoo on her ring finger anymore. I hope that they saved the receipt! Maybe it is in his dresser drawer with the receipt for the 3 identical bracelets he bought.

  337. Anonymous says:

    Another thing I was wondering. Has anyone ever heard of using LinkedIn as a dating site? Because I have a friend who lived in Colorado. She sent a friendly “welcome to the area ” to a person who had just moved there. Within a day he was viewing her profile multiple times a day. And was messaging first thing in the morning (7am) until well after business hours (9pm). Then out of the blue, he mentions that he had heard of people using LinkedIn as a dating site. Weird, huh?

  338. Anonymous says:

    Hum….the wife is monitoring all dating sites, so he got creative and is using other methods to date.

  339. Anonymous says:

    Could be! Think about it. He was dating several women at the same time, had a new wife and was corresponding with several (many?) Via dating sites and texts. His new wife discoveries all his secrets and you are stopped in your tracks. Do you honestly think he can stop? It’s his drug his high. Sure maybe for a week or two but like any addict he needs his fix! Got to get it somehow!

  340. Anonymous says:

    I agree. He bit on my friends profile 12 minutes after she posted. Flirting within an hour. And then when she got busy at work, and with other things, he gave his classic “just checking in “. ……he is going through withdrawal, big time!

  341. Anonymous says:

    Sisters it was a good night!

  342. Anonymous says:

    First, you know that this site now keeps a record of the most viewed posts. Every time you look at this thread, it keeps track. So with your help Dave, next month we should be number one! Second, I just don’t understand why a happily married newlywed would respond to a simple view by your ex girlfriend on your LinkedIn account. You emailed me twice since I broke up with you. I didn’t respond to either because I didn’t want anything to do with you. Why do you keep responding? Does the Mrs. know that you are using LinkedIn to keep in contact with us and that you tried to connect with our family members? Third, you think that most of the posts are from the ones who have found love. Nope, most are from me. Yes several of my sister’s have found love. Real love, with understanding men. Who know everything about you, and understand that there is a healing process. When you find a man like that, you do not think of another during intimacy. I guess that is something that you couldn’t understand. I have not found that. I have dated a few men since our break up. But I don’t think that I can ever really trust a man again. You have damaged me beyond repair. Maybe hearing this will make you not so sad today.

  343. Anonymous says:

    Just checking in. 😜

  344. Anonymous says:

    Checking in again.

  345. Anonymous says:

    Checking in as well

  346. Anonymous says:

    Just checking in 😜

  347. Anonymous says:

    Time to check on.

  348. Anonymous says:

    “Haven’t heard from you today, hope all is well, just checking in “

  349. Anonymous says:

    Top 5 Dave idioms;

    5) My pleasure
    4) No worries
    3) I hope all is well
    2) I am making great strides
    AND THE NUMBER ONE THING WE HAVE ALL HEARD A MILLION TIMES

    1) Just checking in

  350. Anonymous says:

    Dave who?

  351. Anonymous says:

    Just checking in! I am sick can’t make it!

  352. Anonymous says:

    I have been up all night with tummy issues! 🤣🤣🤣

  353. Anonymous says:

    You are the best thing that ever happened to me and losing you would be the biggest mistake of my life

  354. Anonymous says:

    I fell a sleep on the couch so I missed your call. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  355. Anonymous says:

    So many excuses!

  356. Anonymous says:

    Dogs have been acting up. Trooper kept me up all night

  357. Anonymous says:

    I have decided to stick with love. Hate is to great a burden to bear. Martin Luther King Jr.

  358. Anonymous says:

    Such a simple yet profound, beautiful statement

  359. Anonymous says:

    Too bad we don’t all choose to live by Dr. Kings words

  360. Anonymous says:

    I agree!

  361. Anonymous says:

    Funny how there is such a fine line between love and hate. I do agree that those anger hate filled feelings are toxic. Don’t let then consume you honey! You can be the victorious one! We won’t let him win He can’t have your spirit.

  362. Anonymous says:

    Also you have to be thankful that he is out of your life! He is toxic!

  363. Anonymous says:

    Oh so true!

  364. Anonymous says:

    Just checking in on a Monday

  365. Anonymous says:

    Tuesday … just checking in!

  366. Anonymous says:

    Me too!

  367. Anonymous says:

    Me three!

  368. Anonymous says:

    Nice to know that we can still put a frown on your face.

  369. Anonymous says:

    Haven’t been here in awhile. Seems I may have missed some things!

  370. Anonymous says:

    For entertainment purposes only right? Someone should sell popcorn!

  371. Anonymous says:

    Or pour a glass of wine! Or maybe a sip of that Kentucky moonshine!

  372. Anonymous says:

    I have not been here for a few weeks. I thought this site died. Looks like our boy may have been naughty again. Cheaters never change!!

  373. Anonymous says:

    Oh he hasn’t changed in the least! A friend of ours who lives in Colorado sent a friendly “welcome to the area ” with in minutes (12 to be exact) he was messaging her 18 times a day from 7am -9pm! She finally blocked him because he was creeping her out! Also has been viewing our LinkedIn accounts, and trying to connect with family members via LinkedIn. He’s going through major withdrawal! Isn’t on any dating sites we could find. But then again, he might have a fake profile with a fake picture on it. Just to get his fix. Dana probably checks his phone regularly, but he has many, so she probably won’t catch him…..yet.

  374. Anonymous says:

    This is Judy….are you B from Peshtigo?

  375. Anonymous says:

    This is not B. I live in another state!

  376. Anonymous says:

    Oh, ok. I keep forgetting Wisconsin isn’t the only state where he ruined woman’s lives. Good luck to you!

  377. Anonymous says:

    Wow!

  378. Anonymous says:

    Only a matter of time! He will be back at it if he isn’t already!

  379. Anonymous says:

    It’s a long shot but what if he stays faithful?

  380. Anonymous says:

    😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😘😆😆😆

  381. Anonymous says:

    Not possible. For many many years he has had this behavior. It’s not going away now or ever, even though he is now married to an amazing woman!

  382. Anonymous says:

    I agree. I think that Amy was a wonderful woman as well.But It didn’t stop him from cheating on her, probably multiple times. Hence the constant running away to a new state and town. I suspect that his new wife is a strong amazing woman. I don’t think Dave’s story that she needed surgery is true. I think that he lied about it as an excuse to keep another woman interested. I think Dana went into this marriage in an open and honest way….Dave, not so much. I am really going to try to not to post anymore. I admit, it is an obsession. I feel it’s my only way to give Dave a small taste of the payback he so deserves. But I am exhausted. Emotionally spent. I am a much different person then I was a year ago at this time. Some good changes, some bad. But it’s a daily thing. I wish with all my body and soul that I had never responded to Dave’s first message to me on OurTime. But I obviously can’t change time. If I could, I would go back and have the Packers beat the Redskins in the ’72 playoffs. Still bugs me….but I digress….I think every single person (including Dave) knows it’s just a matter of time before he cheats again. He’s already flirting. When it happens Dana,( I think that I can speak for at least 3 of us, ) reach out to us. We will be here.
    for you. Good luck to you

  383. Anonymous says:

    This is Cathy with a final sign off and a big Thank you! Thank you to the amazing ladies I have met. We have endured and come out as friends! We did not allow Dave to destroy us or break our spirit. We did not allow either of them to pit us against each other. They tried by making up FALSE stories about who knew what and FALSE relationships that did not happen. We are strong, courageous, fighters! We have all come out of an awful situation with knowledge that has helped us move forward with heads held high. We go out on our terms and no one else’s despite threats. E M. Forster said “We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. ” Let me tell you that this new life is amazing, beautiful, incredible! So I raise a glass of bubbly to you ladies! Cheers to our friendship, cheers to our future, cheers to new love, and even Cheers to Dave and Dana because they most of all are going to need something to cheer about! Love you Sisters!

  384. Anonymous says:

    That is beautiful my good friend. My sister. I could not have said this better. Sue

  385. Anonymous says:

    Just

  386. Anonymous says:

    Wanted

  387. Anonymous says:

    Up to

  388. Anonymous says:

    Posts

  389. Anonymous says:

    Done

  390. Anonymous says:

    😜You are amazing and I love you!😘

  391. Anonymous says:

    Anyone game for 500?

  392. Anonymous says:

    If we could remove that nasty ass face picture!

  393. Anonymous says:

    I know! I admit there was a time I thought that he was adorable. The fact that he wasn’t incredibly handsome made him more attractive to me. But now, I look at his pictures and cringe.

  394. Anonymous says:

    I can be silent no longer. I have got to ask the question that has been plaguing me for months. The one thing that I think each and every one of us is dying to know…..is Jason Robinson from Genoa Illinois, Dave’s son or what?

  395. Anonymous says:

    With Dave’s cheating history he could have many children spread across the US.

  396. Anonymous says:

    That is true. I am going to check the cheater sites in Washington, Alaska, California, Arizona, Texas, North Carolina, Ohio, Illinois, Kentucky. Did I forget any? Oh yeah, timeshare in Florida and Hawaii. Or so he said.

  397. Anonymous says:

    You forgot Arizona

  398. Anonymous says:

    Oops there it is up above!

  399. Anonymous says:

    What’s a pingback?

  400. Anonymous says:

    At the top it has number if comments and number if pingback?

  401. Anonymous says:

    I just hit pinback. Let’s see what happens

  402. Anonymous says:

    I meant ping back. It didn’t add one to the ping back total. It just added another to our post total. It was 411, went to 412 after I hit the ping back button. So I have no idea what it means or what it does. All I know is Dave is a lying cheating b*****d……carry on

  403. Anonymous says:

    One of the comments (I’m sure from Dave) asked; “it’s a long shot, but what if he stays faithful?”. ….I’ve tried several times to stop posting on here. I said more than once, it would be my last post. Yet here I am posting again. So just imagine, I’ve only been posting on this site since November, and I am having a hard time completely stopping. I keep telling myself to let it go, stop checking the site, but I keep looking. Now, image Dave. He’s been cheating for so long. He probably promised Dana he’d stop, but it’s got to be killing him. No dating sites (that we know of) so he’s using LinkedIn. Whether it be as himself creeping out our friend from Colorado. Or as a fake profile from, oh I don’t know, maybe California? Checking up on old girlfriends, thinking maybe he could reconnect. Poor Dave, the struggle is real. So my answer to the question, what if he stays faithful? The fact that he is using every means possible to hunt again, well I’ve got to say that the answer is a hard “NO”.

  404. Anonymous says:

    Lol! You used Dave and hard in the same paragraph!

  405. Anonymous says:

    Oh please Dave faithful ? No way! He has had so much practice being a cheater he can’t go home turkey! Dave is a w***e!

  406. Anonymous says:

    David is a lying cheating b*****d! Don’t think Dana can keep that close of an eye on him. Dave has so many ways to cheat and lie.

  407. Anonymous says:

    It’s all so pathetic!

  408. Anonymous says:

    Amen!!!
    ALL of It!!!

  409. Anonymous says:

    All this seems like a lifetime ago! Hope everyone is doing well!

  410. Anonymous says:

    Very well! Making plans for a get together next weekend with my sister’s and our new boyfriend’s. It’s odd that we all fell for Dave, and our new boyfriends are so different. It just proves what a chameleon Dave is. Morphing into the perfect boyfriend for each one of us. I wonder which personality he is using these days?

  411. Anonymous says:

    Sisters it was a great time! It is so refreshing that there are still a few good honest, caring men left. It is apauling that we had to do all the giving and thought that was okay. It is so refreshing to have an equal partner. Good luck to Dana….she will have to be the giver and forgiver.

  412. Anonymous says:

    So true! Now that I am in a healthy relationship, I keep shaking my head. He calls me every day. And when I call back, he answers! I don’t even think I know what his voice-mail sounds like! Makes plans for every weekend, helps in the kitchen…..crazy how this completely normal relationship still seems odd to me. Because of Dave, I began to think that unreturned phone calls and evasiviness were the norm. …..on a lighter note….Dave’s posts are among the most viewed! I barely look at this anymore. But I am sure Dave and Dana check regularly for new posts. Probably daily over their morning coffee. Poetic justice that Dave is keeping this post front and center!

  413. Anonymous says:

    Marks RESONABLE tree service
    Mark Dale Krcivoy is a Cheatin jerk off he has Christinia right next to him at all tymes are you Afraid she’s gonna cheating on you you POS

  414. Anonymous says:

    Huh? I think that the previous post wasn’t supposed to be on this thread

  415. Anonymous says:

    Good morning Dave!
    Good morning Dana!
    I knew I’d find you here!

  416. Anonymous says:

    Everyone wants a legacy to leave for their children. I wonder what Dave’s children think of his antics and behavior? Poor kids have such a poor example of what how a man should treat his spouse and what a healthy relationship looks like.

  417. Anonymous says:

    You are so right! Can you imagine how confusing it is to see your dad professing his love to at least 2 women on the same weekend? One online and one in person? And that’s only 2 we know of!

  418. Anonymous says:

    Funny how that is being brought up now. Because May 19th marks exactly one year ago that I met his daughter for the first time. He picked her up from college in Dekalb. I stayed behind at the house in Whitelaw and did about 7 loads of laundry, organized more than 100 neckties, washed his daughter’s bedding, then put together her bed, and got her room organized. Then I made supper. When they arrived, I was introduced as Dave’s girlfriend to his daughter. Unbeknownst to me that on the car ride home, Dave was face timing with another woman, and telling her he loved her and missed her. WITH HIS DAUGHTER IN THE SEAT NEXT TO HIM! I made popcorn that night and we watched some movie. Slept overnight in Dave’s bed. He made waffles for Sunday morning breakfast. Looking back, its just all so sick. What must his poor daughter think? I can only imagine when Dave told her that he was getting married, what her response was. I assume it was “which one?’

  419. Anonymous says:

    Okay, I know it’s not funny but that made me chuckle! Which one,??? We know he professed love and marriage to at least 5! Ever wonder why he actually married and how he chose the “one”?

  420. Anonymous says:

    The Pyramids
    Stonehenge
    Why Dave married Dana

    The 3 Great mysteries in life. I’m not sure about the order

  421. Anonymous says:

    Laughing out loud!!!!

    To think we loved Dave at one time! I know better and never settle again for the way he treated us. I too have a wonderful that answers my every call. We plan every weekend at least one weekend ahead. Flowers every other week. He cooks for me, and treats me like a princess.

  422. Anonymous says:

    It’s out there! Hard to believe we ever felt “Dave’s way” was the “right way “. In Dana’s defense, we all fell for it. Why should she be any different?

  423. Anonymous says:

    Oh tangled webs!

  424. Anonymous says:

    This is such a cool site to let others know of behaviors and patterns!

  425. Anonymous says:

    I just googled this guy’s name and wow! Lovely pictures of him and his bride! What any of you saw in this 👀 googly eyed monster I will never know!

  426. Anonymous says:

    Now,now. Cut us some slack. He was very charming and very humble. Looks were unimportant. After he turned on his charm, the physical attraction followed. He knew what he was doing.

  427. Anonymous says:

    Still does! Leopards don’t change their spots

  428. Anonymous says:

    Poor Dave…He’s had 436 comments made about him in this thread. LOL

  429. Anonymous says:

    437…

  430. Anonymous says:

    Dana and Dave were probably breathing a collective sigh as the posts had died off! Who knows, maybe they are divorcing already? Any bets?

  431. Anonymous says:

    439

  432. Anonymous says:

    I thought we were laying odds on 6 mths….when the heck did they get married? November?

  433. Anonymous says:

    FYI….Brian must be a real a*****e! (#1)

  434. Anonymous says:

    I think so. I could go back in my notes!

  435. Anonymous says:

    I was reading about Brian Edmonds aka Brian Wedgeworth. Maybe Dave established aliases too! Maybe he has more secrets!

  436. Anonymous says:

    I was curious as well but didn’t want to give him a click!

  437. Anonymous says:

    Dave married Dana 9-21-2018. Remember he was still on dating sites in November and sleeping with other women that had no knowledge he was married. Marriage won’t last a year. Does he still have a job? Gets fired ever 18 months or so!?’

  438. Anonymous says:

    I know. We are so close to being number 1! The ironic thing is, now that we have started posting again, I’m sure Dave is checking constantly to see what we’ve said. But that in turn, adds to the “most viewed” total ….with your help Dave, we’ll get to that top spot! Maybe your obsession with looking at this site should be discussed with your counselor. Remember? The help you promised you were getting, making great strides….ring a bell?

  439. Anonymous says:

    Hello scum bag David Sanders 447

  440. Anonymous says:

    You miscounted. That was 448. This is 449

  441. Anonymous says:

    450 we crossed on the 447 and 448

  442. Anonymous says:

    Oh, my mistake. Pardon me…..451….why did we ever stop posting? This is fun! I feel so alive!😜

  443. Anonymous says:

    I stopped posting because I have to see that scums face every time we post.

  444. Anonymous says:

    Oh yeah! It does kind of hit you!

  445. Anonymous says:

    I can remember him sending that pic to me and said….I got my hair cut for you! We had a date the next day! Then I said…. Awwww. Now I say Ewwwwwww!

  446. Anonymous says:

    Yeah I remember him moving to Whitelaw and saying that he didn’t know a place that could cut a black man’s hair. I told him about my daughter Ashley at cost cutters in Manitowoc. He sent the same pic to me and said the same thing. That he had gotten it cut for me. Ashley also said that he went on and on about me during the whole haircut. How special I was, how much he cared about me.

  447. Anonymous says:

    AND….the NUMBER ONE viewed scum bag?…..drumroll……DAVID RANDALL SANDERS!

  448. Anonymous says:

    Read some of Brian’s comments. (Previous $1 scumbag). Found 2 new cheater sites to check out!

  449. Anonymous says:

    #1, not $1 (lol)

  450. Anonymous says:

    I will!

  451. Anonymous says:

    We need to be careful though. Too many views on Brian’s thread, and he’ll be number one again. Too many people worked long and hard, and made numerous unselfish sacrifices to get Dave’s name to number one. I love the fact that any time we want, we can get that lying , cheating , narcissistic, sociopaths nane to number one. Life is good

  452. Anonymous says:

    Life is great! We are coming up on a one year anniversary J. June 2.

  453. Anonymous says:

    Oops June 5!

  454. Anonymous says:

    June 10th is the day to really celebrate! The day we confronted the cheating scum bag as a united front!

  455. Anonymous says:

    I was reading a post from a stranger and now that I look closely they are correct what a creepy googly eye monster.

  456. Anonymous says:

    Yes S! One year! So glad that I reached out to you and formed this bond along with C! Hard to believe that such strong, real,honest friendships, (actually sisterhood) could come from such a messed up relationship. Like the bracelets say “always a sister “!

  457. Anonymous says:

    Brewers win. Bucks up 2-0 in the series..Dave’s thread number one. The Tribeca

  458. Anonymous says:

    Let’s start our own site called DavidRandallSandersExposed.com!!!

  459. Anonymous says:

    Or just DaveSandersExposed.com

  460. Anonymous says:

    Oooh. Sounds good! I’m in! ….and earlier I meant Trifecta NOT Tribeca. D**n auto correct

  461. Anonymous says:

    I am in!

  462. Anonymous says:

    I think DavidRandallSanders exposed.com would be the best. We don’t want to confuse him with all the other innocent David Sanders out there.

  463. Anonymous says:

    Just checking in

  464. Anonymous says:

    Checking in….

  465. Anonymous says:

    Atta girl

  466. Anonymous says:

    Still # 1

  467. Anonymous says:

    I think Dave will always be # 1!!!

  468. Anonymous says:

    I agree! I’ve never met anyone like him. And dibs on Melissa McCarthy playing me in the Lifetime TV movie I’m writing about him! All names of course will be charged to protect the innocent (and the VERY guilty, too) Look for the story of “Don & Donna Saunders” soon!

  469. Anonymous says:

    The Bucks lost. The Brewers lost…..my world is falling apart. I am devastated. Nothing makes sense in this crazy world anymore. If only I had something to hold on to, some shred of stability…..WAIT! Dave is still number 1! All is as it should be.

  470. Anonymous says:

    Dave is only number one in scumbag world.

  471. Anonymous says:

    Yes, of course. I thought that was implied. Dead last in compassion, thoughtfulness, and generally every normal, caring human characteristic. But first in scumbag world.

  472. Anonymous says:

    Happy Wednesday!

  473. Anonymous says:

    Just….

  474. Anonymous says:

    Need…..

  475. Anonymous says:

    To……

  476. Anonymous says:

    Add……

  477. Anonymous says:

    A…….

  478. Anonymous says:

    Few……

  479. Anonymous says:

    Comments!

  480. Anonymous says:

    Kevin….

  481. Anonymous says:

    Cannot…

  482. Anonymous says:

    Remain. ….

  483. Anonymous says:

    At…

  484. Anonymous says:

    The ….

  485. Anonymous says:

    Head….

  486. Anonymous says:

    Of…..

  487. Anonymous says:

    The…

  488. Anonymous says:

    Class!

  489. Anonymous says:

    I….

  490. Anonymous says:

    Agee….

  491. Anonymous says:

    Dave…

  492. Anonymous says:

    Has….

  493. Anonymous says:

    Earned…

  494. Anonymous says:

    That….

  495. Anonymous says:

    Position!……

  496. Anonymous says:

    (Only position he was ever good at!)

  497. Anonymous says:

    Truer

  498. Anonymous says:

    Statement

  499. Anonymous says:

    Never

  500. Anonymous says:

    Made!

  501. Anonymous says:

    He deserves this award!

  502. Anonymous says:

    So….

  503. Anonymous says:

    True…..

  504. Anonymous says:

    SO good at cheating and lying. I wonder if he knows what the truth is.

  505. Anonymous says:

    Happy Thursday

  506. Anonymous says:

    9 months of marriage for Dave…..how many times has he cheated ? 100. ?

  507. Anonymous says:

    Still married?

  508. Anonymous says:

    Been fired yet?

  509. Anonymous says:

    I hope people in Colorado Springs know David Sanders in Whitelaw is the same man. He moves a lot!!!

  510. Anonymous says:

    Runs from his lies and all the ladies cheats on. Also can’t keep a job.

  511. Anonymous says:

    In my opinion, if you have lust or desire for another, you are still cheating. So by that measure, I think 100 times cheating is a lowball guess. We know that he was all over Jennifer on LinkedIn. He probably has established several aliases and has fake profiles on all of his favorite dating sites. Also several cell phones that only he knows about. That way he can communicate with as many women as he wants. He’s too addicted to go cold turkey.

  512. Anonymous says:

    Ladies there is another scum bag at number one.

  513. Anonymous says:

    Your mission (should you decide to accept it) is to get his thead back to number one!

    Who’s in? I am!

  514. Anonymous says:

    Me

  515. Anonymous says:

    Ditto

  516. Anonymous says:

    Ready set go!

  517. Anonymous says:

    GO!

  518. Anonymous says:

    Yeah !!!

  519. Anonymous says:

    I’m doing my part. Should be back up to number one soon. Hopefully on the anniversary! Remember Dave? What happened a year ago? I thought that we crushed you that day. I thought that you learned your lesson and finally realized what you were doing to people. How you were scarring women for life with your false promises of love and marriage. But by your actions in the days that followed, I realize that our confrontation meant absolutely nothing to you. You were up to your old tricks within hours of our visit. And I am certain that you haven’t stopped. I guess that’s why I am so tenacious about this. If I would have thrown in the towel a year ago, you would have continued to lie to S. I would like to think that I saved her some grief . And obviously, I saved her some money! I feel that you are getting off easy. Fleeing to another state again, starting over (again!) I don’t know when or how you will get your due. But I hope that I hear about it when it happens. It will certainly make my day

  520. Anonymous says:

    One year ago on a Tuesday I got a text that showed me what a scum David Randall Sanders was “is” a women in his bedroom in a nightly with a gift of a hat I had just given him s week earlier. Busted!

  521. Anonymous says:

    That text saved my life and my bank account.

  522. Anonymous says:

    Yes…..David loved it when I brought food, wine, made dinner and paid for tickets.

  523. Anonymous says:

    What a fool

  524. Anonymous says:

    I am do lucky to have a real man.

  525. Anonymous says:

    My man answers his phone. One phone! Doesn’t hide Two other phones.

  526. Anonymous says:

    A real man makes plans in advance

  527. Anonymous says:

    A real man doesn’t pretend he is sick three times a week ….

  528. Anonymous says:

    A real man doesn’t use kids as an excuse to be with other women

  529. Anonymous says:

    A real man doesn’t continue to cancel plans

  530. Anonymous says:

    A real man tells a women he loves her when he means it not just to get something from a women

  531. Anonymous says:

    A real man doesn’t make a women feel guilty for wanting to spend more time with there man

  532. Anonymous says:

    I believe in Karma !! I would love a front row seat.

  533. Anonymous says:

    So would I!

  534. Anonymous says:

    He’s on enough social media that I am sure we will know when he screws up in Colorado. The inevitable “starting a new chapter in my life in a new state” post is coming. He lasted what? 2 years in Illinois? Just over 2 years in Wisconsin? He’s got a few months in, in Colorado. This time next year he’ll be looking else where because ” everyone here is so incompetent. Everything is run half ass backward” . Because remember…every job he got fired at (did he ever quit?) It wasn’t his fault! I’m sure he uses the same reasoning when cheating. “They asked for it, they let me, it wasn’t my fault, it was theirs for believing me”…..sound about right, Dave?

  535. Anonymous says:

    I was talking with another victim. (That’s right, I said victim. He emotionally raped each of us.) She said after all this, she still was thinking that Dave really liked her most. My God, I was thinking the same thing. That just goes to show you what a master manipulator he is. I’m sure we aren’t the only 2 who have felt this way. He would ignore us, but then be full of apologies, and tell us how we were the only stability in his crazy life. What would he ever do with out us? I am sure that Dana is feeling the same way. She thinks Dave truly loves her most. She thinks he really does not now, or has ever, cared about another woman. Believe me Dana, we’ve all heard it….I was listening to a Hall & Oates song today. The line said ” its so easy to hurt others when you can’t feel pain “. Reminded me of Dave. I don’t think that he has an ounce of empathy in his body. He has no idea how he hurts people because he has no soul…..I had a terrible thought. Maybe the only way he will ever understand is if the same thing happens to his daughter. But I am not sure how much he even cares about her.

  536. Anonymous says:

    I can’t believe that he’s still #2. Kevin must be a real piece of work.

  537. Anonymous says:

    Kevin Angileri is the biggest POS known to man kind believe it or not he tops Dave. Kevin will be going back to prison very soon, I want to make sure that his elderly parents see their POS son go back to prison before they die.

  538. Anonymous says:

    Wow. I am truly sorry for your pain. Dave is a heartless b*****d. But he never did anything illegal (that I know of). I’ve gotten to know several of the women that Dave was cheating with. We have formed an alliance, and call ourselves sisters. Have you been able to reach out to any of Kevin’s other victims? At first I thought it was weird, being friends with the others. But realized they were the only ones who understood….I hope that you can find some peace and closure. This site has helped TREMENDOUSLY with my healing process. He had no mercy on my heart. And now I am returning the favor

  539. Anonymous says:

    1 year ago today…..remember?

  540. Anonymous says:

    Dave remember what happened a year ago today? Closure !

  541. Anonymous says:

    We can call it dirt bag Dave day!

  542. Anonymous says:

    Wow, google Dave and see cheater sites and court arrest or who knows what just staring you in the face. Bet his wife and kids are proud!!!

  543. Anonymous says:

    I’m sure his family has seen his name and pictures. And I’m also sure that he has a story explaining it away. I’m also pretty sure that he doesn’t care what any of them thinks. If he cared about any of them, he would have never treated us the way he did. It’s hard to truly care about anyone else when you don’t have a soul.

  544. Anonymous says:

    I bet a part of him is glad to receive the attention. I sure hope his next employer does a background check that includes Google!

  545. Anonymous says:

    I think that you are on to something. I think that being the true narcissist he is, he is enjoying everything

  546. Anonymous says:

    Wonder how people like this look in the mirror every day? How does he sleep at night?

  547. Anonymous says:

    He is a narcissist. He has no empathy and honesty cares about no one but himself. I think that he sleeps just fine

  548. Anonymous says:

    I also think that he looks at this site daily and actually takes comfort in the fact that he is not alone. I think that he is thinking “I’m not so bad, look at all the other cheaters!”…..yeah, like his fellow scumbags, Dave sleeps very well at night.

  549. Anonymous says:

    I wonder if Dave’s kids called him for Father’s day. He’s such a fine role model. I bet they don’t even talk to him anymore

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